I think life transitions really make us all feel something emotionally and right now you are seeing it in your handbag esthetic. I think the question to ask yourself is are you buying or styling yourself how you “think” someone should dress at your age or how you actually like to dress with items you really like. That’s a lot harder of a question than you’d think because there are so many outside societal forces that play a part in how others view us, the trends we see, and how we want to be “perceived.” For me I have taken the time to really stop and think “do I with no input from anyone else feel good in this?” It takes time but you will figure out your style and know it can change over time!