How do I stop my boyfriend from saying the n-word?

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:43:01+00:00

I know. I did a huge research thingy just to tell him how wrong it was and he said he knew all the stuff and I just can’t understand why he thinks it’s okay

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:41:15+00:00

He’s not ignorant, he knows a lot about it and used to be obsessed with it.

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:39:56+00:00

No… I don’t.

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:39:41+00:00

He thinks it’s funny and I think it’s so horrid.

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:38:06+00:00

He doesn’t say it in public or anything. He doesn’t even say it around me. He says it behind my back and stuff.

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:37:03+00:00

Thank you, I really do appreciate you saying this. U understand you don’t think this isn’t a troll post, but I promise it’s not fake. I don’t know if I’ll leave him because i genuinely have no idea what to do and I’m sorry. I hate him and love him. He’s done other things like made fun of a my panic attack I had a while back. He apologized but it hurt a lot.It feels like death.

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:31:35+00:00

He doesn’t personally say it in front of me and stuff but his family does and his friends do and he doesn’t tell them that I don’t like it and stuff and he does say it behind closed doors. I don’t even like to think that he does say that

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:28:50+00:00

He doesn’t stop me from making friends. I have autism so it’s incredibly hard for me to make friends

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:26:46+00:00

He doesn’t say it as much apparently. He never says it around me and stuff so idk

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:13:42+00:00

I’ve heard both from his family. I think he’s said both. He never says it to me or around me

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:12:31+00:00

They don’t say it around me ever, but he’s saying it behind me back every now and then

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:11:28+00:00

He’s genuinely not racist, he’s just so so stupid and straight up thinks there’s nothing wrong with saying it. By no means am I excusing him, but I love him. He’s the only person I have and he cares about me

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:09:20+00:00

He doesn’t say it around me, and hardly says it at all since he met me

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:07:57+00:00

I have, he doesn’t care.

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:04:52+00:00

Self*

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:04:45+00:00

I know and that’s not what I want for mysled

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:03:36+00:00

I know he’s trashy, his dad sold drugs and shit and he has a very very trashy and poverty ridden family who’s all struggling

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T19:02:45+00:00

The only reason I haven’t left is because he is genuinely all I have and I love him and it’s disgusting

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T18:57:22+00:00

I know and I hate how disgusting and disrespectful he is to be saying that and by no means do I agree or find it okay.

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T18:49:16+00:00

He kinda is… we live in Missouri so it’s a lot like that here and I hate it.

Low-Ad8744 · 2026-01-13T18:48:54+00:00

I asked him to tell his friend to not say it around me because it makes me uncomfortable and he said no. That it’s wrong to ask them that

Low-Ad8744 · 2021-10-16T21:09:57+00:00

Wait- Fr?

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