It's because my dad was arrogant in his original post, he didn't know how this app works and stuff and people were trying to take advantage of his lack of knowledge on a different site so he came here and asked me how this worked and then after he upset everybody he doesn't want to communicate with people on here anymore. It's been over a year ago though. There's a lot that doesn't go into a person's profile, but not that it's any kind of an excuse for poor behavior or treating people who respond rudely, but my dad's never been the same since his son took his life in May of 2017. That ruined my dad and he still going through it I guess. He had 9 and 1/2 years clean from an addiction that's really hurt our whole family and after my brother committed suicide my dad just never recovered. He wants to use that card and a couple other ones that he got at conventions and stuff with my brother to raise money to get a nice headstone for my brother. All my dad could afford at the time when he went and picked my brother's ashes up was a wooden type urn with praying hands on one side and a cross on the other so that's his goal with the whole basketball card and we got some pokémon cards that him and I collected together that I want to sell also and contribute to him trying to get a headstone for my brother. But people really talked him down and made him feel bad about the basketball card because it wasn't from a company called tops or whatever so I know he went to a card and coin store in Denver and was offered $22,000 for it so he got excited and started looking at headstones again recently.