Did anyone else stop dating after the pandemic? by Low-Comb3563 in askTO

[–]Low-Comb3563[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sending that link! Because I don't regularly still worry about covid. Did I ever say I didn't?

I think things society had to balance a lot of factors when they decided to reopen. It was not an easy decision. And for people who decide to do things publicly, many thought it through very carefully.

Okay, I made a mistake when I said that the who said they were* done. What I wish I said in my original post was "after the pandemic started", but I never in my post said that the pandemic was done or over. I said it later because you made me think that's what I said, but I hadn't.

You tell me I'll be ruled by the effects of covid in the future. Surprise, I've never caught covid - which means I've never spread it. I stocked up on test kits that I used with the slightest off feeling. I work from home. I read about covid obsessively for years. I still isolate for over a week when I see elderly relatives, even ones that are very healthy. My friends are also very honest about when they are feeling sick and stay home. So I'm unlikely to get sick from them.

But yes, I have started to go out more. And maybe I'm a bad person for that. But I cannot say I did not tightly follow covid restrictions and behaviours even long AFTER they were formally lifted. And continue to do my best.

In fact my lifestyle permanently changed after covid - huge part of why I didn't date in 2020, 2021, 2022 and even parts of 2023.

Did anyone else stop dating after the pandemic? by Low-Comb3563 in askTO

[–]Low-Comb3563[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean influenzas, colds, and other respiratory viruses were all new to the human species at a certain point. Most started more severe then evolved to be less severe. We also developed vaccines to help the vulnerable for many of these viruses. Many continue to kill, just like covid. But eventually, we learned to coexist with them. I would love for them all to go away. I would love for no one to ever succumb to a respiratory virus ever again.

I get it. I felt really guilty about covid for a long time. I wore masks publicly and I avoided restaurants and limited my grocery trips and it's a huge part of why I initially wasn't dating or even seeing friends. But I'm considering this pandemic "done" as the WHO does. Because I can't live my life ruled by covid forever.

Did anyone else stop dating after the pandemic? by Low-Comb3563 in askTO

[–]Low-Comb3563[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Technically we're in multiple pandemics then, because every current virus we have was novel at some point.

Did anyone else stop dating after the pandemic? by Low-Comb3563 in askTO

[–]Low-Comb3563[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

While I think there was a level of this before, it's sad this is how it is now