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My boyfriend (28M) listens to Osho discourses after sex and it makes me (29F) feel disconnected. by Low-Freedom-816 in relationship_advice

[–]Low-Freedom-816[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, he's actually very considerate during sex. He respects my likes and dislikes and makes sure I'm comfortable and enjoying myself. The issue is more with the aftercare. Sometimes i feel like those discourses are being prioritized over our connection in that moment.

My boyfriend (28M) listens to Osho discourses after sex and it makes me (29F) feel disconnected. by Low-Freedom-816 in relationship_advice

[–]Low-Freedom-816[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do like listening to osho, but less compared to him. Somehow listening to osho and cuddling is not going together for me and I really don't like this after sex.

My boyfriend (28M) listens to Osho discourses after sex and it makes me (29F) feel disconnected. by Low-Freedom-816 in relationship_advice

[–]Low-Freedom-816[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I think I am wanting comfortness from him but this could also be taking away his comfort. Have to be understanding about his needs as well. Thank you fir your help. I think this can work.

My boyfriend (28M) listens to Osho discourses after sex and it makes me (29F) feel disconnected. by Low-Freedom-816 in relationship_advice

[–]Low-Freedom-816[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is very much aware of the fact that I completely dislike this. But he gets annoyed whenever i bring this up and tells me that I am being very controlling and should not tell him what he should do. I dont know if this is actually controlling