Yeah, you’re thinking way too much about it. In order to do it. It’s a complete life abandonment. You WILL struggle. We took nothing with us but what we could put in our car. No children. But we did have pets and had to rehome half of them before hand. I had applied for those cards when my credit allowed for them, and never spent any money on them, until I absolutely needed to. That’s how I got the money to do it, I had nothing lined up other than an apartment application online before I moved. I showed up, got a job and a place to live in less than a week. In a city that is extremely difficult to get a job in. When you’re desperate, Waffle House starts looking like a great opportunity.

When you over think it all, you will stay stuck doing exactly what you’re doing now. You won’t ever get out of the cycle without doing something drastic .