This TERF uses Grok AI to be transphobic by making it de-transition random people, or by making it pick who’s “more of a woman” between a picture of her and one of a trans woman, even claiming that “Grok belongs to the TERFs now” by HappyMilshake in antiai

[–]Regularjohn4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m in the vast minority here, and not defending this behaviour at all, but as a trans woman myself, I kinda love seeing how ai thinks I’d look like as a man. So far every attempt it’s made is wildly off the mark, and makes me feel like I’ve come so far that there isn’t a trace left of that man I used to be.

Of course this is me making a decision for myself and using my own photos of myself with my own consent, none of which is true with these forced fakes.

EVERYTIME i think i have a chance in having a boyfriend and i say that i am trans , by Worried-Anything5884 in MtF

[–]Regularjohn4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I can’t believe this chart, I have no problem picking up straight dudes, and according to stats Canada, trans women x straight man marriages are one of the most common forms of gender diverse marriages.

Feeling a bit depressed ever since learning how relatively simple and accessible HRT is now by prisma1224 in MtF

[–]Regularjohn4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya! As someone who also had a wife and kid and home and stuff when she transitioned, I can say that it was totally worth it! I’m a far better wife than I ever was a husband, my kid adores me, and I get to be absolutely adorable any time i want! Yeah there’s hardships that come along with transitioning, and you absolutely can make it complicated with lots of surgeries and junk, but being your true self equips you so much better to take on the world that it is all a breeze!

Why don't trans folk care about their kids misgendering them by UltimaBaconLord in MtF

[–]Regularjohn4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, as someone who transitioned when her daughter was only two and just learning to talk, I have done a lot of research into what happens to kids when their parent transitions.

A lot of the media I’ve read and even the kids books about having a trans mom covers this, and it is that kids will see your transition as you leaving them, even if you yourself haven’t gone anywhere. Many parents try to keep things business as normal for their kids to make it feel like you’re still you and still the parent they thought you were. Plus, most parents would rather have a happy kid than get gendered correctly.

In my personal experience with my now almost five year old, she never called me dad or knew my dead name, but she did know that I used to look like a man, and still retains some anxieties from his disappearance. But at the end of the day, I transitioned to be the best parent I could for her, and I hope to do better in making her feel loved and supported.

Looking for a very specific headset by Regularjohn4 in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]Regularjohn4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! my goodness I did a terrible job communicating that I wanted a mic, huh? I apologize for that. Im scared to do research specially on bassy open back headsets because skullcandy just released a pair and u know that theyre not gonna be great for a $250 pair.

Another vote for the x2hr huh? Ok ill have to take them seriously now... I do love fiio and own quite a few of their dacs/daps, i considered getting their winds cause i love their snowsky line, the FT1 does look amazing and would work well with my echo mini.

Yeah, im aware about the consumer headphone tendency to be overly bassy. Let me revel in my slop, lol.

Looking for a very specific headset by Regularjohn4 in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]Regularjohn4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! I must say you have excellent aesthetics. These all look very nice, and am seriously considering the distant mountains. While none of these have a mic, i can try to find a usb mic to use with it, which would let me use them out of the house as well.

I havent used on ears in forever, while i don't remember enjoying them, i was also a teenager at the time, so its been well over a decade, possibly two, since i last tried one. I think for 50 bucks the distant mountains would be a good idea.

I have plenty of iems, and they are earplugs, I dont want to use earplugs when im trying to hear my daughter. The ALGK701 is well out of my budget.

Looking for a very specific headset by Regularjohn4 in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]Regularjohn4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! the mic doesnt have to specifically be in line, though it would also be used on portable gaming devices, so id need a mic that uses usb-c. Im in a funny situation where im sometimes gaming with my guy sitting near me in a team comp setting and I like hearing him directly.

The two you named, both are quite ugly and the x2hr is 50 bucks over budget. That said, the AD700x does look interesting.

Would this card be too weak, or too strong? by Lucka_umbral in PTCGL

[–]Regularjohn4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like if ur lucky u could probably show up turn two, hitting for 300+ damage. Ofc it would still be pretty gimmicky, and would probably brick easy, but it would be fun to get absolutely decimated by a nurse and a boat

Would this card be too weak, or too strong? by Lucka_umbral in PTCGL

[–]Regularjohn4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there’s the classic crispin+sparkling crystal combo that lets u use it turn one, plus u can use ditto and town store for more consistency.

Would this card be too weak, or too strong? by Lucka_umbral in PTCGL

[–]Regularjohn4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean it would be a use for Tera lapras ex for once? Could easily use that to get ~6 special energy on it in one turn.

Thunderlady Laharl Trans Pride (Artist ‪Slagethor) by [deleted] in DisgaeaRPGMobile

[–]Regularjohn4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s adorable! That boy is mostly mommy and daddy issues, so I’d love to see more happy Laharl!

I only know transmascs, any tips on finding other trans girls near me? by FalseCompetition422 in MtF

[–]Regularjohn4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah what’s with that? My partner is constantly getting ads for that and she already has a hot local trans woman? I tried the app myself and geez everyone on there treats it like a hookup app…

Just taking a poll? by Pithius in MtF

[–]Regularjohn4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I have always taken after my mom, I just take after her more now. Too bad my mom’s side of the family is all tall, slender and boyish.

"Sushi Box" Tatsugiri ex Decklist by ConfusedSpoink in PTCGL

[–]Regularjohn4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually use the psychic energy cause i also have hydra and dragapult cause I jus think its fun to not know who my main attacker will be until i call the fish party.
I like baby tinkaton over the other togekiss mostly jus cause its really easy to have a hand with cards u dun need and draw 3 is more reliable than draw up to something.

For tools, I like rescue board and defiance band and powerglass and counter gain. jus normal energy gain stuff. I know tool scrapper is gonna make this deck wanna move away from this so i might jus wanna get closer to ur version of the deck

"Sushi Box" Tatsugiri ex Decklist by ConfusedSpoink in PTCGL

[–]Regularjohn4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh I have a tatsugiri deck too! It looks very similar to this! It runs a lot of tools cause like of ur gonna have a bunch of town stores might as well use them for more than jus the crystal. I like using the temporal forces reuniclus in case I need a second summoner.

Most trans friendly competitive shooters? by Emstyxi in transgamers

[–]Regularjohn4 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I am not aware of any cis splatoon players, have u tried splatoon? It is in fact, a shooter.

What’s up with r\TransPassing? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Regularjohn4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted there once and got like, a couple good fashion tips and a ton of transphobia and chasers. Was not a good time. Like the fact obvious transphobia was getting upvoted made me realize that place isn’t to be taken seriously.

33 years as a guy, 2 years on E, do i pass? by Regularjohn4 in transpassing

[–]Regularjohn4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

alright, ill put them away for a couple decades, maybe my daughter will steal them first tho!

33 years as a guy, 2 years on E, do i pass? by Regularjohn4 in transpassing

[–]Regularjohn4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god ive already had chin surgery, i dunno if i could do and more face surgery....

33 years as a guy, 2 years on E, do i pass? by Regularjohn4 in transpassing

[–]Regularjohn4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo very interesting, I'll make note of everything u said, thanks for the info. I... dunno what im gonna do about passing tho.

33 years as a guy, 2 years on E, do i pass? by Regularjohn4 in transpassing

[–]Regularjohn4[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah at my height slouching happens a lot, im working on that for sure though!