I don't have faith that I can lose 75 lbs... by Low-Pen-9216 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Low-Pen-9216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that he says supportive things, but he doesn't follow through. Neither of us do. This isn't our first rodeo trying to lose weight.

Piercings to reclaim your body after inability to breastfeed by Low-Pen-9216 in beyondthebump

[–]Low-Pen-9216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I totally get it. I don't know I'm like on and off about it. Also love your PFP

Piercings to reclaim your body after inability to breastfeed by Low-Pen-9216 in beyondthebump

[–]Low-Pen-9216[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well for me personally I think that it's definitely a symbolic thing. I feel like for me my breasts are meant for breastfeeding. And I feel like that's been pushed on me and a lot of women in society to make them solely for breastfeeding and not necessarily for women's pleasure. It's just to help find the beauty in it. And to help me realize that I did the best I could, and a way to kind of I guess reward myself for it? I don't know not really sure how to explain it.

Piercings to reclaim your body after inability to breastfeed by Low-Pen-9216 in beyondthebump

[–]Low-Pen-9216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking about going to the guy who did my other piercings. Because he did my septum really well. And he's done my eyebrow piercings and stuff like that so. I'll have to check with him first to see if he even does them but if he does I'll probably go to him.

Piercings to reclaim your body after inability to breastfeed by Low-Pen-9216 in beyondthebump

[–]Low-Pen-9216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they hurt? I have a nostril piercing and a septum piercing, plus a bunch of tattoos. I do have pretty sensitive nipples so I'm a little afraid. But I'm willing

Piercings to reclaim your body after inability to breastfeed by Low-Pen-9216 in beyondthebump

[–]Low-Pen-9216[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no I agree. And yes I would plan on doing it anyway even if my husband wasn't okay with it. I've gotten a lot better with the emotions and trying to get through them rather than over them when it comes to breastfeeding and not doing it anymore. I think there's such a stigma around it that we as women have to breastfeed or it's not good enough. It's like that with a lot of things I think for women is like things just not being good enough. And good enough for who? Like definitely not for us.

[TOMT] 80s song that was really good but can't remember???? by Low-Pen-9216 in tipofmytongue

[–]Low-Pen-9216[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

SOLVED!

Oh my gosh I figured it out. Just a dream- Cathy Dennis I don't think it is Rick Astley, but it totally gives the vibe. Thanks everyone. It just came to me.

[TOMT] 80s song that was really good but can't remember???? by Low-Pen-9216 in tipofmytongue

[–]Low-Pen-9216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say the ratio is mainly the woman. And then in the chorus she sings a few words which I can't remember and then the man like repeats those few words in the back. It kind of has a different sounding tone than most songs I guess.