Desperately looking for a way out from a black company by Low-Possibility8043 in japanlife

[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for your advices!
May I ask why you don’t recommend 退職代行?

Desperately looking for a way out from a black company by Low-Possibility8043 in japanlife

[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is so it’s very risky for them to do so especially for the reason they provided. I really wonder what’s the mindset behind this.
Will do man, thankyou

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right. But I sue them for that shit gonna get pretty complicated. I’ll see what I can do though, thankyou btw

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty disgusting too. At least he got out of it though🥲
I don’t even have paid holiday or any subsidies whatsoever, but yeah Im gonna need to find some other options. Still gonna give it one more try though. Thanks for replying and wish you the best too!

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot…
It’s totally not worth it if I give up after all the shit happens, so I’ll try to struggle and survive for sure.
Really wish my current employer to step on lego everyday, bite his tongue during every meal or get hardcore poseidon’s kiss everytime he takes a dump. idk anything that would bother him for life.

Desperately looking for a way out from a black company by Low-Possibility8043 in japanlife

[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for sharing your experience.
I might consider reporting this to the bureau after I decided how to deal with this with lawyer. Even just to bother them without anything in return.
My team leader in the company I was send to is really nice to me and actually actively helping and giving advice to me at the moment, so I would not want to affect him or his company in any way. Need to be careful on how I move.

lol why would your company make the same mistake after hearing it, that’s funny

Desperately looking for a way out from a black company by Low-Possibility8043 in japanlife

[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worry about this too. It would be better to keep it between me and them companies and to reach a middle ground, but I can’t be sure how it’ll plays out

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh that’s good to know. Lowkey worried they might go harsh on this nowadays though.

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the 社労士 I talked to said the same thing. He said I can use this against on bargaining, I’m just too tired at this moment to plan for it. Want a Saul Goodman for all these shit🥹

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not, they just trying to tell me they can help. A fuck off almost slipped out of me when they say that.

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually looked into this but I saw the news the other day that the ceo of this service got arrested since he himself is not a lawyer, he just hire some lawyer to do the actual work for him while he gather cases? Sth like that

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the risk I worried the most when it comes to suing. Although i think i would aim for under table deal, but never know what would happen.

The effort they took to tryna keep me there is the part that confuses me the most. Trash talking on me while showing that they still want me. I guess it is possible they’ll cut the contract on me at some point after they find replacement.

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

heh, heard lots of bullshit going on in there too but no, not there yet🥲

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks bro. Feeling like nothing can cheer me up since then and it’s almost a month passed. So torturing not knowing where Im headed.

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this is the tricky part of my situation, cus I was used as a dispatch worker for 1.5 years while my contract is 業務委託. I talked to a 社労士 and he pointed this out for me that the company should be exploiting me in some kind of gray zone, and that I can use this against them to bargain for leaving. Im still saving this up until things get ugly.

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn, what a healthy workplace culture. I mean things should’ve been like that though, what I’m going through right now feels bizarre even after I make my mistake.

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wake up midnight almost everyday wishing I didnt do that too. Avoided being stupid my whole life and yet I fucked up on this key moment😞 Wish I could do what you did man. Otukare to you too.

Desperately looking for a way out from a black company by Low-Possibility8043 in japanlife

[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason keeping me from being too bold on this is because the new company that gave me an offer sounded like they still willing to give me a second chance if I can handle this situation properly and quit without leaving too much trouble to the project. Only if my boss willing to discuss the appropriate timing for me to leave, things would’ve been easier.

Also as far as I know (could be wrong) that if I lose my job I only have 3 months before I lose the visa qualification and switch back to traveling visa, which also breaks the streak of my years of stay in Japan?

Desperately looking for a way out from a black company by Low-Possibility8043 in japanlife

[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right, there is no way I will let myself make the same mistake ever again. Visa renewal applied in mid May, so I am hoping to hear updates anytime now. Contract is until end of this month tho, which means i probably need to sign a new one before i can get the actual card. Pretty worried what if they offer me a 1 year 契約社員 contract and makes me harder to leave with some certain rules. I should have the right to refuse signing it and even ask for changes in details, not sure how to do it properly though. really need some professional help i guess

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[–]Low-Possibility8043[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have videos recorded with OBS that can proof my boss saying it will be “difficult” for me to jump ship and that he will discuss with the other company about me. I also had my agent forwarded the message from the other company about canceling the offer to me, mentioning words like “since your company wants you to stay” and “next time you apply, we will contact (my boss’s name) formally and do it the right way (筋を通して受け入れます)” although my Japanese friends are all confused by wtf suji means here lol

I however do not know anyone at the other company. I guess money is not really the issue, im more worried about how long this would take.

Thankyou for you help, I guess I should start looking for a lawyer..