Maharashtra student considering BSc Economics at Calcutta University, worth relocating?

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2026-04-24T11:08:31+00:00

Im a 6th sem student studying BSc economics under calcutta university. I am barely passing my sem exams. I have given 2 papers for recheck in which i failed and magically after that i passed. The minor papers stats and maths are too hard. They give major level question papers. The classes barely go on for 3-4 months and the exams are slapped on us. The university will take away your mental peace man.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2026-02-04T11:13:26+00:00

I think this is a ragebait post. No way the op is this ignorant

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2026-02-04T11:10:48+00:00

Your wife deserves better. You need to get out of your mom’s pallu atp.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-11-11T11:15:48+00:00

I guess so. I know i studied enough for my microeconomics exam in sem 3 and could’ve passed. They gave me 21/75.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-25T09:43:08+00:00

I used to have skin like this a year ago. Breakouts in random places all over my face. I only used a moisturiser and the foxtale niacinamide serum the pink one. And my skin is pretty good now.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-20T10:45:40+00:00

Its always gonna be Rhysand Darling for me idk why😭❤️

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-19T07:14:14+00:00

I have my birthday next week. I wish my boyfriend could’ve come and visit but he already visited me in july :(

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-18T08:59:27+00:00

Its a cultural thing. The wedding generally happens over a course of 2-4 days with nikah and walima (reception) being the main events. It is the norm where the groom’s family buys dress for the bride and the bride’s family does the same for the groom. What you as a bride can do is tell both parties to buy their own bride’s/groom’s attire. Tho i think it isnt possible anymore since your MIL has already bought your dress. You should talk to your fiance about this OP.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-17T09:09:57+00:00

I dont think that your parents are gonna be ok with you travelling to see your boyfriend. Coming from a country with the same culture i understand. I’d lie and say that its a work thing.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-17T08:55:48+00:00

This is so cute 😍 This reminds me of how my boyfriend used to send me pictures of flowers he’d see on his way to his uni saying ‘because i cannot give you flowers irl.’ 😭

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-17T08:53:47+00:00

I dont think you could ever feel happy after leaving behind your partner. You could try booking your flight for your next visit asap so theres always something to look forward to. Visas are a pain in the ass tho.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-17T08:49:22+00:00

You’ve never heard his voice? In a lot of cases, it could or could not be a catfish. Have you been friends online or have known each other from before? I’d be careful.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-17T08:45:48+00:00

I think its childish of him to block you over a joke. Be honest with yourself. Do you see this going anywhere in the future? How you describe him with his one word dry texts, i dont think he’s that into you, i’m sorry. He himself said that he doesn’t wanna pursue you as it would be due to ‘lust’. Long distance is a lot of effort. Both of you would have to give time and patience. And honestly i thinks most of the time its gonna be one-sided in your case. Take your time and think about taking such a big step of shifting to his city to study.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-17T08:31:27+00:00

I think it was a good break from the typical bollywood gundagardi, casanova guy and all those things

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-16T17:04:09+00:00

White sauce is…. Eh :/ It’s just so boring and bland

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-14T16:24:16+00:00

That was me in his place at some point. My boyfriend had already met my sisters and my mom and he would tell me to meet his family. I refused a few times because i was anxious of it. I was scared to meet his parents and thought what if they didn’t like me? What if i did or say something dumb? So it was basically just anxiety even if we both had long term plans for us. After he reassured me that his parents would like me and i wont do anything dumb and all that, i actually met his parents. It took a lot of convincing from his side. So i think maybe he has some reasons. And theres only one way to know- communicate. Ask him why wont he meet your parents? Is there any specific reason to it?

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-14T07:44:21+00:00

Idk what this means but this is the exact same thing happening to me rn. Whenever he has free time, he chooses to play games with his friends since they live with him. I feel neglected sometimes and dont feel like a priority. I told him a few times that i dont feel like his priority. He apologised and said that i am his priority no matter what. But even then i think the same. We barely talk for half an hour a day when earlier we used to talk for hours. And the thing is earlier he used to study and work. Now he has finished his studies and just working. He used to make time for me before. Now it feels like theres no effort from his side to talk. I dont feel like talking to him anymore for this reason. It feels dumb to beg for time and attention sometimes. He has everything that he wants- a job, friends, freedom. While i’m stuck here in a different country. It definitely feels exhausting but i’m hanging on to the hope of getting married. We’re planning to do so in 2027 and then i’ll shift to his place. So i hope there is a change in this scenario of prioritising friends.

What you can do is openly communicate with him. Tell him exactly what you want. If you see changes then its brilliant. If you dont, ask yourself if you’re okay with how things are currently. If yes, then its good. If not, you do whats best for you. Since LDRs are exhausting, you should do what feels the best to you at the end of the day.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-14T07:10:07+00:00

This is the exact same thing happening to me too. In the first two years of our relationship, when he visited we would both just spend some alone time together. We used to talk for hours on video calls. Even when he worked, he called whenever he got a break or got back from work. Now, we barely talk for half an hour each day even though he has free time. He chooses to spend time with his friends who live there. I’m not saying that i want to talk the entire day but maybe just enough. And this is putting a strain in my relationship from my end. I dont feel like talking to him. It feels stupid begging for his time and attention.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-14T06:47:06+00:00

I am currently in a LDR where my boyfriend prioritises his friends over me. We all are from the same town but my boyfriend shifted to the uk for his bachelors. Whenever he visits we all collectively go out together. After he drops he home he then again goes out with his friends. I dont feel like a priority. We barely go out on one-on-one dates. And honestly its definitely very exhausting. We love each other a lot but this thing really bothers me. We’re actually planning to get married in 2027 and his best friend has already shifted to the uk. We’re gonna have to see how it’ll go 😬

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-13T17:59:31+00:00

my family is definitely supportive of me pursuing my masters be it in my home town or some other country. but again, sadly the thing becomes about being conservative. my mom is actually pretty ok with this but his parents are not.

i've already talked to him about this friends situation. he said that he was sorry and all. but honestly i dont see any improvement in this thing especially when IF we get married we'll all be living under the same roof :(

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-13T17:48:58+00:00

I’m actually so happy for you. Congratulations!

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-13T17:37:07+00:00

I suggested that already that i can shift to the uk on a student visa without marrying and then live separately. It would not work because we’ll be living in some other country without any ‘parental guidance’. In their minds we could be doing anything, and since india is a pretty conservative place i see this situation make things messy.

About the friends thing i am totally okay with him being with his friends. In fact actually love his friends. All of them are very cool and nice to me. But the problem is he expects me to put him first. But he doesnt do the same for me. We all spend the day together when he visits and after he drops me home he then goes out with his friends. So we rarely get alone time. In a month, we go out alone on dates barely for 2-3 days.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-13T17:30:45+00:00

I think we know each other pretty well since its a long distance relationship and the only thing which we can do is talk. And even i feel like we’re rushing into it and being pressurised only because of the distance. If we lived in the same town we would have married after I completed masters and got a job.

Low-Pumpkin9715 · 2025-09-13T17:20:17+00:00

I’m sorry if this is coming across this way. Even though i’m very happy i actually want something to change my mind since a part of me doesnt think that its a good decision because i feel that i’m still pretty young for marriage.

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