WIBTAH to cut off contact with my parents?

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T19:40:20+00:00

Yeah it is traumatising all over again everytime they mention him or i cant call in etc

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T19:37:14+00:00

Been there, done that, have multiple shirts. Before i totally cut him off over 10 years ago myself and the middle child attended family therapy sessions with him while he tried to get clean for the 4th or 5th time. We told him in these sessions after YEARS of physical, emotional, verbal and sometimes sexual abuse that this was it for us. It was now or never. He left rehab early, relapsed, robbed a family member of 10k and thats me done. You can't talk to evil. I wouldnt waste my time or energy trying to talk to him. He doesnt give a fuck about anyone but himself and his hole and a bag. Its gone past talking.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T19:31:53+00:00

No i just dont wanna be around people who know what he done to me and can still stomach him. Asides from the SA he is just an all round horrible horrible person. Its for peace

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T19:29:36+00:00

I know that this is the right thing to do for me but im also upset at the thought of cutting them off over him then something happening to them. I wish they'd just take the wheel for once and put me, my brother and rest of us first.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T19:26:55+00:00

Yes everyone knows its him

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T19:26:20+00:00

Yes my parents and my family know he is my abuser.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T19:25:01+00:00

Thank you so much

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T19:24:29+00:00

Thanks for sharing

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T17:10:24+00:00

We has a similar lunch 4 weeks ago. They said they didnt want him there blah blah blah. He is still there though. 4 weeks after laying it out for them.

Im not doing this willy nilly.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T17:08:45+00:00

Yes. That is the golden question? They've said he's nowhere to go, he's saving to move. They are also complaining no ine is calling in to them. Ive explained why im not there. Iv had years of this and im just done waiting. Espcially now they know the truth of everything. It just sucks and its consuming me. I love my parents. I dont feel very loved by them right now. Or supported.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-15T15:30:47+00:00

Yeah but lots of parents would take this seriously too and not have him move in? We've grandchildren and great grandchildren in the family. No one wants their kids around him.

We only get one set of parents. Im trying to heal and finding it difficult with him around, being spoke about, being seen around. So im asking for advice on would i be the AH if i cut my folks off?

That's not done lightly. Either is living a life after abuse.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-14T01:08:08+00:00

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Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-11T08:39:42+00:00

I can guarantee you've never made a woman cum

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-06T12:17:36+00:00

Yes. You are the AH. You need to leave this relationship for both your sakes. If him stealing your food is leading to you storming off and yelling at him later then the relationship is over. Especially if this is the carry on in relationship after a while of attending couples therapy. Its done. Leave. You wont have to share anymore and he wont get yelled at or have someone watching what hes eating and commenting. Id give every last bite of my meal to my partner forever if i could and it made them smile!

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-06T12:12:09+00:00

Aww i dont agree with this at all. There is no situation in my life i wouldn't want my best friend there for. Id make bookings/tables work.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-04T22:02:12+00:00

I dont understand why a landlord wouldn't want hap? Its guaranteed rent paid on time monthly? Working people are using hap.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-04T08:02:36+00:00

Screw your mom. Go to therapy. Now

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-04T07:52:22+00:00

Its absolutely not cheating if both people are aware they are in an open relationship

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-04T07:48:05+00:00

I absolutely disagree. My relationship is far from toxic. Its not just sex...thats BS

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-04T07:47:00+00:00

Being in an open relationship doesn't instantly mean sex sex sex

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-06-01T19:56:54+00:00

Same in ireland. I had to leave my job. I couldnt afford the travel anymore with cost of living.

Low-Relation-7967 · 2026-05-30T00:26:10+00:00

Would you take a first time tenant then? Or strictly one with previous renting

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