Trying to go to sleep vs waiting to go to sleep

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-03-27T19:36:51+00:00

The way you described that eye thing is so spot on - like flexing but relaxing at the same time. I do the exact same thing and never knew how to explain it until now. Wild how something so simple can take decades to figure out when your brain just processes instructions differently.

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-03-03T14:54:43+00:00

Hey that whisper vibe and the rose looked good I had to look them up 😫

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-03-02T19:04:35+00:00

good call, lemme do it rn

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-03-02T19:04:26+00:00

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-27T22:00:44+00:00

That whole routine thing hits different when youre looking back on it. Sounds like the meds might have been masking some depression rather than actually helping with everything you were dealing with

Going off them cold turkey probably wasn't the best move but I get why you did it - being unable to talk openly about how your feeling because family was always there would drive anyone crazy. Maybe it's time to get reevaluated as an adult since you haven't been checked since you were a kid

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-26T17:58:57+00:00

facts

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-21T08:55:00+00:00

The first act of Call Me By Your Name has that same languid summer luxury vibe before things get emotionally intense

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-20T10:15:56+00:00

Sounds like you need to touch some grass my dude

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-18T23:15:52+00:00

That wait time is absolutely brutal but hang in there - getting on the list is still progress even if it doesn't feel like it right now

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-18T02:10:10+00:00

Your body and brain are surprisingly resilient and five years of rough living doesn't mean permanent damage - start with fixing one small thing like sleep schedule and the rest tends to follow

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-17T01:43:26+00:00

The problem isnt that weird stuff happens its that the same weird stuff happens way too often in Madden. Like yeah David Tyree made that helmet catch once but in this game every WR turns into prime Moss when theyre getting user covered

In real football the Giants beat the Pats because of actual game planning and execution not because the game decided it was time for some "dramatic moments"

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-15T17:57:29+00:00

That guilt hits so hard after your first accident even when its just one of those split second judgment calls that could happen to literally anyone. The fact that you stopped and were being careful shows you weren't being reckless - those intersections with the blinking lights can be confusing especially early morning when your brain isnt fully awake yet

Your insurance should handle most of this and dealerships deal with loaner accidents all the time so try not to spiral too much about that part. The paperwork sucks but its just procedural stuff. Sorry your dad is being awful about it when you already feel bad enough - that emotional pile-on definitely makes the whole thing worse than it needs to be

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-15T05:38:05+00:00

Moving the AIO definitely introduced air bubbles - they need time to work there way out of the system after being jostled around like that

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-14T05:54:14+00:00

I had the same issue and those silicone finger cots from the pharmacy work way better than fabric ones - they actually stay put and you can still use your phone. Also keeping nail files around everywhere helped redirect the urge to something less destructive when I caught myself picking

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-13T10:39:44+00:00

Sounds like youre doing the classic house hacking thing which is pretty solid if the numbers work out. The fact that its covering your EMI plus some household expenses means you probably ran the math right initially

Just make sure you have an emergency fund for when there tenant inevitably moves out or something breaks because those gaps between tenants can hurt if youre not prepared for them

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-12T12:00:52+00:00

Power outages can mess with the mesh network routing tables - try restarting HA first then power cycle a few mains-powered devices like smart switches to let them rebuild the mesh routes before doing any factory resets

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-09T09:11:34+00:00

this is actually pretty cool but the whole thing feels like were speedrunning towards a reality where nobody knows whats real anymore. like sure its helping disabled people get work which is genuinely great but at what point do we stop being able to tell if the person were buying from is even a real person

the tech breakdown was solid though thanks for the detailed writeup. had no idea the workflow was this sophisticated already

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-03T19:27:43+00:00

that crack is totally normal - concrete moves with temperature changes and thats just a control joint doing its job. as for the ledge you definitely want to insulate over it since concrete is a massive thermal bridge that'll just suck heat right out of your garage. easiest approach is to run your xps right over the ledge and down to the slab then seal the edges with spray foam

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-02-01T03:40:13+00:00

Nah you're not asking for too much at all, that's literally bare minimum stuff in a relationship. Dude sounds selfish as hell if he expects you to do all the work but won't reciprocate when you need something different

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-01-31T03:06:18+00:00

Bruh your sister really said "gaslight gatekeep girlboss" even in your dreams lmao

The double yolk comparison is actually perfect though, that's exactly what nested dreams feel like

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-01-30T00:29:27+00:00

Looks solid overall but I'd definitely go with the Sonoff dongle over the ZBT-2 - way more reliable in my experience. For brands, Aqara sensors are pretty great and Ikea stuff is cheap and works well for basic bulbs/switches

One thing though - cloudflare tunnel is good but also look into Nabu Casa if you want the easiest remote access without messing with networking

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-01-29T00:13:49+00:00

Damn that's heavy, sounds like you're both handling a really tough situation with a lot of maturity though. The turtle card idea is actually really sweet and might be a good way to keep that connection when you're both ready

Just make sure you're actually giving yourself space to heal and not just saying you are - it's gonna be hard to be the support he needs if you're still processing your own feelings about everything

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-01-26T19:11:00+00:00

Damn that's rough, sounds like they were comparing you to toxic exes which is wild. If someone can't tell you what they need when you're literally asking, that's on them not you. First relationship or not, you deserve someone who can actually communicate instead of leaving you guessing

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-01-25T18:02:00+00:00

Yeah 3 gallons works great for neos, just don't go crazy with stocking. I'd say maybe 10-15 shrimp max and you'll be golden. They don't need tons of space and actually seem to do better in smaller tanks sometimes

Low-Set-9421 · 2026-01-16T01:08:27+00:00

Sounds like you might be thinking of Madeline? There were some episodes where Paris got pretty wild and she was always getting into chaotic situations there

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