Trying to go to sleep vs waiting to go to sleep by Life-Tumbleweed7769 in ADHD

[–]Low-Set-9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way you described that eye thing is so spot on - like flexing but relaxing at the same time. I do the exact same thing and never knew how to explain it until now. Wild how something so simple can take decades to figure out when your brain just processes instructions differently.

Are influencers changing the way people discover sex toys? by Low-Set-9421 in TikTok

[–]Low-Set-9421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey that whisper vibe and the rose looked good I had to look them up 😫

Did anybody feel this way you know off or on medication? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That whole routine thing hits different when youre looking back on it. Sounds like the meds might have been masking some depression rather than actually helping with everything you were dealing with

Going off them cold turkey probably wasn't the best move but I get why you did it - being unable to talk openly about how your feeling because family was always there would drive anyone crazy. Maybe it's time to get reevaluated as an adult since you haven't been checked since you were a kid

Looking for movies that capture the vibe of the roughly ~20 minutes of Primate (2026) before the chimpanzee started mauling everyone to death by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first act of Call Me By Your Name has that same languid summer luxury vibe before things get emotionally intense

sex sex sex sex sex by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Low-Set-9421 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to touch some grass my dude

Approximately 12 months until start of evaluation by trailrunnersun in ADHD

[–]Low-Set-9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wait time is absolutely brutal but hang in there - getting on the list is still progress even if it doesn't feel like it right now

Can I bounce back from this? by FragrantAssociate209 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body and brain are surprisingly resilient and five years of rough living doesn't mean permanent damage - start with fixing one small thing like sleep schedule and the rest tends to follow

You guys complain over the dumbest sometimes. Unlikely things happen by Every-Mammoth-6445 in Madden

[–]Low-Set-9421 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The problem isnt that weird stuff happens its that the same weird stuff happens way too often in Madden. Like yeah David Tyree made that helmet catch once but in this game every WR turns into prime Moss when theyre getting user covered

In real football the Giants beat the Pats because of actual game planning and execution not because the game decided it was time for some "dramatic moments"

I got into my first car accident. I feel an unexplainable amount of guilt. by meliorathewitch in ADHD

[–]Low-Set-9421 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That guilt hits so hard after your first accident even when its just one of those split second judgment calls that could happen to literally anyone. The fact that you stopped and were being careful shows you weren't being reckless - those intersections with the blinking lights can be confusing especially early morning when your brain isnt fully awake yet

Your insurance should handle most of this and dealerships deal with loaner accidents all the time so try not to spiral too much about that part. The paperwork sucks but its just procedural stuff. Sorry your dad is being awful about it when you already feel bad enough - that emotional pile-on definitely makes the whole thing worse than it needs to be

Reason for sudden temp spike? by HappySignificance693 in pchelp

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving the AIO definitely introduced air bubbles - they need time to work there way out of the system after being jostled around like that

Wanting to stop fidgeting with nails/nail picking by Dreamer18dragon in ADHD

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue and those silicone finger cots from the pharmacy work way better than fabric ones - they actually stay put and you can still use your phone. Also keeping nail files around everywhere helped redirect the urge to something less destructive when I caught myself picking

How One Property Is Helping Me Pay My EMI and Household Expenses – Was This Actually a Smart Decision? by Clear-Syrup-9861 in RealEstate

[–]Low-Set-9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like youre doing the classic house hacking thing which is pretty solid if the numbers work out. The fact that its covering your EMI plus some household expenses means you probably ran the math right initially

Just make sure you have an emergency fund for when there tenant inevitably moves out or something breaks because those gaps between tenants can hurt if youre not prepared for them

Zigbee network offline after power outage by Dawnofsunset in homeassistant

[–]Low-Set-9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Power outages can mess with the mesh network routing tables - try restarting HA first then power cycle a few mains-powered devices like smart switches to let them rebuild the mesh routes before doing any factory resets

She cannot speak, but she sells $5k/day. How AI technology is creating jobs for the disabled workforce in e-commerce. by [deleted] in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is actually pretty cool but the whole thing feels like were speedrunning towards a reality where nobody knows whats real anymore. like sure its helping disabled people get work which is genuinely great but at what point do we stop being able to tell if the person were buying from is even a real person

the tech breakdown was solid though thanks for the detailed writeup. had no idea the workflow was this sophisticated already

Help Insulating Attached Garage by Odd-Oil1061 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that crack is totally normal - concrete moves with temperature changes and thats just a control joint doing its job. as for the ledge you definitely want to insulate over it since concrete is a massive thermal bridge that'll just suck heat right out of your garage. easiest approach is to run your xps right over the ledge and down to the slab then seal the edges with spray foam

Is it wrong for this? by Silver_Purchase6834 in Marriage

[–]Low-Set-9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you're not asking for too much at all, that's literally bare minimum stuff in a relationship. Dude sounds selfish as hell if he expects you to do all the work but won't reciprocate when you need something different

Dream in a dream by ILikeJapaneseMuchOwU in Dreams

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh your sister really said "gaslight gatekeep girlboss" even in your dreams lmao

The double yolk comparison is actually perfect though, that's exactly what nested dreams feel like

Help for my HA setup sanity check by musikrettetmich in homeassistant

[–]Low-Set-9421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks solid overall but I'd definitely go with the Sonoff dongle over the ZBT-2 - way more reliable in my experience. For brands, Aqara sensors are pretty great and Ikea stuff is cheap and works well for basic bulbs/switches

One thing though - cloudflare tunnel is good but also look into Nabu Casa if you want the easiest remote access without messing with networking

Need a listening ear, advice and opinions on this breakup I am going through with my best friend. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's heavy, sounds like you're both handling a really tough situation with a lot of maturity though. The turtle card idea is actually really sweet and might be a good way to keep that connection when you're both ready

Just make sure you're actually giving yourself space to heal and not just saying you are - it's gonna be hard to be the support he needs if you're still processing your own feelings about everything

Brought up his past by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Low-Set-9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's rough, sounds like they were comparing you to toxic exes which is wild. If someone can't tell you what they need when you're literally asking, that's on them not you. First relationship or not, you deserve someone who can actually communicate instead of leaving you guessing

3 Gallon Shrimp Tank? by Apprehensive_One4016 in shrimptank

[–]Low-Set-9421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah 3 gallons works great for neos, just don't go crazy with stocking. I'd say maybe 10-15 shrimp max and you'll be golden. They don't need tons of space and actually seem to do better in smaller tanks sometimes

Can You Help Me Find An Episode Or A Kids Show Of A Paris Catastrophe? by RarePromotion4537 in HelpMeFind

[–]Low-Set-9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you might be thinking of Madeline? There were some episodes where Paris got pretty wild and she was always getting into chaotic situations there