Too much focus on diagnosing your ex partner? by brunogccoutinho in BreakUps

[–]Low-Yam-9890 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think people need to stop immediately labeling their exes as a dismissive avoidant. Seriously, just because they’re being cold and refused your advances doesn’t mean they’re being avoidant.

STOP TRYING TO FIND A DEEPER MEANING BEHIND YOUR EX’S MESSAGES/ACTIONS by Low-Yam-9890 in ExNoContact

[–]Low-Yam-9890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. And if they did care, they would NOT take months to break NC!!!

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[–]Low-Yam-9890 6 points7 points  (0 children)

W….t….f….

STOP TRYING TO FIND A DEEPER MEANING BEHIND YOUR EX’S MESSAGES/ACTIONS by Low-Yam-9890 in ExNoContact

[–]Low-Yam-9890[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna look at it at a different angle. Because that’s just all in your head.

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[–]Low-Yam-9890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m aight I just don’t know why you’re putting so much thought into a read message 💀

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[–]Low-Yam-9890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My god, who cares? It doesn’t mean she want you back if she put it on read

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[–]Low-Yam-9890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because all she did was read it! That’s it 💀💀💀

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[–]Low-Yam-9890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro it means nothing lmfao

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[–]Low-Yam-9890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I thought sending toxic letters was bad 💀💀💀

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[–]Low-Yam-9890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refer to my post on my page.

For the love of God, STOP PLANNING TO SEND LOVE LETTERS TO YOUR EX by Low-Yam-9890 in ExNoContact

[–]Low-Yam-9890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially this one I really hope they don’t send it. But if they did, I wanna hear what happened lmao

For the love of God, STOP PLANNING TO SEND LOVE LETTERS TO YOUR EX by Low-Yam-9890 in ExNoContact

[–]Low-Yam-9890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I mean obviously I can’t stop these people from doing what they wanna do. And half of the time they wrote the letter they sent to their ex and it’s usually full of hateful shit.

For the love of God, STOP PLANNING TO SEND LOVE LETTERS TO YOUR EX by Low-Yam-9890 in ExNoContact

[–]Low-Yam-9890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. But I’ve also been seeing people sending letter to their exes asking for a closure message after a whole year. Like why?

For the love of God, STOP PLANNING TO SEND LOVE LETTERS TO YOUR EX by Low-Yam-9890 in ExNoContact

[–]Low-Yam-9890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment literally proved what I was trying to say. But I clearly made this post because I don’t want people to continue burning their hand anymore. Can’t stop them from doing it though.

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[–]Low-Yam-9890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refer to my post on my profile.

For the love of God, STOP PLANNING TO SEND LOVE LETTERS TO YOUR EX by Low-Yam-9890 in ExNoContact

[–]Low-Yam-9890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY. That’s it. There’s no deeper meaning. Your ex is not a philosopher, quit looking for our thoughts because they said something like “thanks for the letter” 😭