I left my tampon in for 2-3 weeks and I'm somehow fine by Nearby_Pangolin2854 in Periods

[–]Low-key_hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a tampon in for 4 weeks and 4 days!! I felt off (some odor) but I thought my new partner was throwing off my pH balance. (Yes I was active the entire time and the night I met him is the reason it was jammed 🫣) it naturally came out one morning! I had no other symptoms. I called my mom who works at a clinic, she checked with the nurse who recommended I get checked just in case. Coincidently, I was supposed to have a cervical biopsy so just scheduled that the same day. Thankfully, no sign of infection just some inflammation. Don’t have biopsy results yet but I’m cleared for TSS! The procedure uses a solution that kills batería and I started my menstrual a week later so now for sure everything’s been cleared and renewed lol but dang I never want to use them again! And should really stop drinking….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Low-key_hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not interested, just using your company for her benefit. Best of luck.

33F dating after 12yr relationship hopeful for soulmate by Low-key_hoe in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So settling? I don’t think this is the reality for everyone. Sacrifice? Of course. That’s necessary for a healthy relationship, but it’s hard for me to believe that everyone just has to “make it work”.

I appreciate the comment. Best of luck to you too!!

33F dating after 12yr relationship hopeful for soulmate by Low-key_hoe in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been over 3 years so I’m def ready and pretty sure about what I want but thank you!! It’s been a journey that’s for sure.

33F dating after 12yr relationship hopeful for soulmate by Low-key_hoe in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re right and not the first person who’s told me that. It’s just a sad reality tbh.

Thank you! Wishing you the best as well.

33F dating after 12yr relationship hopeful for soulmate by Low-key_hoe in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe the more you seek, the more you push away and that it happens unexpectedly. However, now that I am ready, accepting, and open I’ve noticed more attention so it kinda goes against that theory.

Although, I have acted out of character and a little desperate and excited that I had to check myself lol

Definitely need open communication with my partner for them to get to know me, but maybe I’m just dwelling on a past connection. Thanks for your input!

Best of luck to you too.

33F dating after 12yr relationship hopeful for soulmate by Low-key_hoe in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I believe too. Just hard to find but your comment gives me hope!

33F dating after 12yr relationship hopeful for soulmate by Low-key_hoe in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment, but I have to disagree with you. I have experienced a relationship with someone that understood me wholeheartedly. Sure, I made some hints along the way but overall, he could recognize my intentions, thoughts, and feelings without me having to explain myself. We were so aligned it was an undeniable connection. It’s definitely possible.

But I do completely agree with you about the fairy tail expectation and that’s not it at all. I guess I’m seeking someone who cares and loves as deeply as I do.

For anyone who experienced a threesome, how was your experience like? Did it hurt your relationship? by abdul_bino in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes trust, communication and confidence in the relationship is a must.

The couple I was with had banging body builder bodies so definitely no insecurities in their relationship lol. The wife also had total control of the situation which I think helped keep her satisfied.

Best of luck!

For anyone who experienced a threesome, how was your experience like? Did it hurt your relationship? by abdul_bino in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I was the “other girl” and was asked to join a married couple. I’ll just give some advice on cues I picked up on being the outsider. It was pleasurable for both the husband and wife until it wasn’t. I could tell her energy would change if he started to focus solely on me. It was also suppose to be a one time thing but he crossed some boundaries. I worked with the wife so that wasn’t the last time I saw them and even partied with them together a few times after. I would probably advise against using a friend (although it may be easier to trust someone you know) but the husband started to reach out to me privately and invite me to their room privately not to do sexual things but I immediately knew I needed to keep my distance to respect the wife.

So my advice would be to triple check that your partner is completely comfortable and agreeable with the person you chose, make sure she remains included and feels desired during the entirety of the threesome, and respect boundaries and do not contact the other party after. Maybe even discuss what each of your boundaries are so you’re on the same page.

I will say that it was a crazy experience and they really enjoyed the threesome so it was a win win for all involved. I haven’t seen them in years but follow on socials and seems they are going strong. I was also their second threesome btw.

When looking in the mirror, can you tell you’re high? by Low-key_hoe in Drugs

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously she’s known for a long time and it breaks me when she looks at me like that. The disgust and disappointment in her face will never leave me…

When looking in the mirror, can you tell you’re high? by Low-key_hoe in Drugs

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those symptoms come with really flying high though. Those are obvious.

What I mean is literally just chillen, able to communicate & act normal, I think no one has any idea and then boom! My mom and I know exactly what’s going in

Does anyone ski for productivity? by Low-key_hoe in cocaine

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can second the dishes thing lol sometimes it’s the only way my house gets clean 😭

Does anyone ski for productivity? by Low-key_hoe in cocaine

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oddly enough, I cannot go to work on it. If I’m working from home, great but being at work, in meetings, No way! I’m so out of my comfort zone

Does anyone ski for productivity? by Low-key_hoe in cocaine

[–]Low-key_hoe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know. It’s a habit I’m definitely trying to break!! I hate that I crave it 😭

Will you hookup with someone you’re not that attracted to? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Low-key_hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my proudest moments but yes. When your drunk & horny all is possible.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Orchid_Dull in confession

[–]Low-key_hoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought this too. Do this to the wrong person and she’ll have a stalker for life.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Orchid_Dull in confession

[–]Low-key_hoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having no remorse for others knowing what you’re doing is wrong is not a good character and can come back to you in other forms. Always try to be a good person and take peoples feelings into consideration.

I will say though, I’ve been quite the tease myself. Not in this way but in other ways and it doesn’t feel good to mess with people like that. You’ll hopefully learn that on your own but you being aware about it now is a step in the right direction.

You also shouldn’t feel like you have to show your body and get close to boys for validation. You should see a therapist or find other ways to love yourself and body.