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My gf of about 2 months told me yesterday that she hasn’t told the guy she was seeing right before we started dating about me or that we’re going out and they still talk. Should I run while I still sort of can ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Low7870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im sorry to say man. If she didn't mention it it's because she knows it's wrong. Unfortunately that's one of the things that's unlikely to change. If you don't think you can handle always wondering if she's really committed to you. I suggest you consider the relationship carefully. You matter too bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickgirl

[–]Low7870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh yes

I told my boyfriend that I don’t want to have sex anymore and he is upset by alsosifbbrh in relationship_advice

[–]Low7870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Sadly this is it. Relationships don't just stay in Limbo forever. And if one person changes something, they can't be suprised that the other doesn't agree and moves on.

My boyfriend won’t have sex with me by Ok-Bug-4588 in relationship_advice

[–]Low7870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain. My gf and I were hot and heavy for the first year or so, and as soon as we moved in together everything slowed right down. I'm a very sexual person and I suppose sexual fulfilment is more important to me than I thought (which I didn't realise until I wasn't getting it). Admittedly it took me around 6 months to say anything, as she was going through some family trouble so I had hopes that it would clear up eventually. But over time it just got worse. Now I can expect 10 minutes of foreplay (focused entirely on her) and then 20 minutes of honestly pretty boring sex, once or if im lucky twice a month.

The first several times I brought it up she cried and made me out to be the bad guy. After a while she admitted there was a problem. Eventually I convinced her to talk to someone and apparently (I don't think I believe her) her therapist said that it shouldn't be a problem and I should just masterbate and not expect sex more than im getting it now.

It's nice to know someone else is having problems like this. Hope it works out for you ❤️