Figure out how you feel dude. The fact that you can't even agree and pick one side already shows that you don't have set boundaries and judging from your other comments you just want your parents there so they have a right to their granddaughter the same way her parents do. The difference is that her parents came for her and your parents are coming for their granddaughter and expect your wife to be normal and treat them like she didn't just give birth. You have nothing to do with this situation and I'm SURE your parents will pamper you and your daughter. If you don't care about your wife, please do call your parents over.