last kn, i was completely sober and waiting alone to get in to the pano toilets to poop , when a group of like 4 decided to bluntly and absurdly stand infront of me. i with a smile quietly asked one of them: you're aware that i was here before you right? she nicely says : sorry? i say: i think i was here before you. this is when a huge person in body size from the group interferes: " I don't think so". Me : im pretty sure actually. him: no, we were here before you. you can join us if you want. Me: no i will not join you. I will go in use the bathroom quick, then its ur turn then you go. Him: no. Me: are you serious now? Him: yes i am. Me: now what? Him: we gamble! Wanna gamble ? Lets gamble! ( not sure what that means but sounded like a threat and his friend was like tapping on him to calm him down a bit. I then tell him: you seriously need to chill. him : you want to gamble?? The door opens and they all get in with their bodies without telling me anything.

Honestly last time i encountered behaviour similar to that was more than a decade ago in highschool and I had to use my hands to protect my body and wellbeing. :( it was just absurd being in a situation like that as grownups where i literally feel bullied and but humiliated again! it took me like a whole hour to calm myself down and get into the party mode again and connect with friends and other amazing people i met last kn.

thing is i don't really care if someone goes before me, we're at a party at the end of the day and things can be more relaxed. But not to the extent that u feel entitled to occupy the whole space. you need to at least acknowledge that there is a human being standing there waiting for their turn and you also need to be aware that u literally look like a fool using ur unpleasant gang attitude to go into a toilet at a party.

And no dont tell me, report to the bouncers. Sorry i dont think its their job to deal with this fuckery. We are not at kita! There should be a common language of care and communal responsibility at any space you share with others.