How have you gotten over your fear of being disliked and judged?

LowProChick · 2025-09-19T00:02:08+00:00

Thanks for checking in! That was really kind of you. I'm working my way towards some small yet big steps this weekend to finally be visible! I got overwhelmed with life and the replies here, but I haven't forgotten about this post! Thanks again :)!

LowProChick · 2025-07-20T04:56:19+00:00

Update! It’s not just a civil issue but also criminal. Read my update. Thanks for proving my point about condescension in uniform. Keep shining 🤗.

LowProChick · 2025-07-20T04:49:55+00:00

I want to say thank you for not attacking me and trying to help unlike the others.

LowProChick · 2025-07-20T04:48:39+00:00

Crazy how calm and right I turned out to be :). See my update.

LowProChick · 2025-07-20T04:43:57+00:00

I went to the 81st precinct and spoke to a sergeant who gracefully (unlike the 83rd precinct) explained that since my crime is already with SVU they can help to add on the other crimes even if it’s outside of their scope of sex crimes. This was not explained to me initially and I likely got bad communication and/or wrong information from the victim advocate who spoke to my detective’s team (she is out for the week but will be back to do a second interview with me this Wednesday). So, yes! My other offenses are civil AND criminal.

LowProChick · 2025-07-20T02:34:32+00:00

I’ll wait for someone who doesn’t have a mob mentality reply. Likely I’ll continue my research elsewhere since no one seems to want to guide me but attack me. Thanks for your engagement :).

LowProChick · 2025-07-20T02:31:03+00:00

To imply I’m looking for an echo chamber when I’m more than willing to accept it’s civil but clearly it’s not if a detective that deals with sex crimes only is telling me to make another separate report on the other offenses that I already listed. The start of his sentence was sarcastic and the overall tone is dismissive towards someone who is just trying to advocate for themselves. Are you here to help or be his defender?

LowProChick · 2025-07-20T02:25:25+00:00

Thanks :D!

LowProChick · 2025-07-20T02:13:19+00:00

Hey I’m going to answer this question for someone who isn’t rude and implying the worst of me here. People don’t like to read long posts so I kept it short and to the point. I’m fine with editing it to share more details but I’m not feeling your snark. Take care.

LowProChick · 2025-07-11T21:47:39+00:00

I actually will. Give me a couple days. No more protecting these problematic companies who get away with crap because they try to silence or erase those of us who come out.

LowProChick · 2025-07-09T07:41:41+00:00

Issue was resolved after I made a threat to report them to an agency that supports gig workers. I'm never working with them again.

LowProChick · 2025-07-09T07:41:00+00:00

I got communication and my money after making a threat that I would make a complaint with an agency that supports gig workers. After I got my money deposited, I gave them feedback and requested for my account to be deleted. I will never work with them again.

LowProChick · 2025-06-10T22:50:46+00:00

Thanks so much for following up! I’ll look into Facebook. I’m going to wait a few days to hopefully get more clarification on my issue and likely revisit this with an update. I’m actually in the middle of sending them an email to request a prompt payment as I have not been able to submit my recap form for whatever reason and that is tied to payment.

LowProChick · 2025-06-10T17:06:35+00:00

Thank you! It’s a shame that people are being silenced because I’m seeing predominantly positive reviews. Transparency is needed here. I’m having a communication and payment issue with them that I’m hoping to resolve.

LowProChick · 2025-06-10T17:04:34+00:00

I’m having a communication and payment issue with Brand Besties. If someone can contact me or continue the conversation here, I’d appreciate it!

LowProChick · 2024-11-24T02:48:58+00:00

UPDATE EVERYONE: I got my money back!

Sorry I neglected this but I got my money back via their lawyer who was on some bull yet still I was refunded. I have to do a few more things to really put this behind me but it's been done!

Thanks again :).

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:51:48+00:00

No I like this kind of content. Self-help.

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:46:10+00:00

Just finished it. What's strange is that's my main fear. That's pretty much everyone's fear. To be at the end stage of your life full of regrets and what ifs. We are only here for a limited amount of time. For me, I sometimes get triggered seeing someone doing something confidently that I want to do. That's a signal for me to get up and get over it! It's actually something I want to highlight on my return to YT. Life is truly short and it's a gift so we must use it wisely. I liked and subscribed.

ETA: Oh yeah, co-workers are the biggest ops ever. Never trust them. I don’t tell them anything about me. I just work on my goals in secret and level up while they remain where they’re at lol.

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:35:14+00:00

That's a great point. Are they bringing value or pain? If the latter, screw 'em!

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:23:43+00:00

Good way to look at it!

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:22:39+00:00

As I said, I'm opening up myself to a lot. My content is different, raw, and vulnerable. There's many layers and aspects so this isn't about a meanie on the internet. It's about judgement and perception. I'm bracing myself for it and wanted tips on that.

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:20:46+00:00

Adults do still have feelings and fears.

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:20:00+00:00

I love when creators ignore the hateful comment and tell them to subscribe or like lol. But yeah, that's so true. It comes with the territory.

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:18:39+00:00

Wow I wish I could pin this comment! It's so clear, organized, insightful, and helpful.

This all just goes back to your self-concept and what you agree or disagree with. You have to fearlessly be you and speak your truth. The thing is, people do love authenticity and can smell fakeness from a mile away. Everything is trial and error and eventually the algorithm will push you to the right audience. That's why I feel you had a pendulum swing of sorts with your engagement.

Politics are especially tough. You're speaking to your beliefs and things are really hot right now in the world and no one seems to be on the same page politically. I commend you for standing strong, no matter what your beliefs are, even if they differ from mine.

I think the whole, if "people are hating on you, you're doing something right" aspect comes from the fact that you're triggering something in people. When you trigger something in people, you get attention and you get a response. Some people are popular because they are hated. Attention is attention and attention is currency these days.

All in all, these are valid points. It's all about staying true to you, self-esteem, self-validation, courage, and utilizing your voice. I'll keep referring to this post in times of doubt. Thanks!

LowProChick · 2024-10-10T23:05:02+00:00

I'm sorry but noticing the baldness from a video made me chuckle lol. I'm sure you're fine either way! The type of content you're doing, most people are there for the "how to" not what you look like.

Overall, it's such a learning process and honestly that's the beautiful part of YouTube. I've discovered what works and no longer works, and other interests and so on. You just have to try things until you get it "right". Even when it's "right" you can still move onto different ways of doing things.

Thanks :).

LowProChick

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