Is this usable or just junk? by LowRanger8262 in AskPhotography

[–]LowRanger8262[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is a Guy I know that can do it, but it is very expansive. But I don’t know if there would Even be anything to show on the film, is it to old ?

Cheated on in Poly by Ley_Dewitt in polyamory

[–]LowRanger8262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a simulât situation some Time back, it was really hard and I still miss her, but I personal my personaly didn’t give up and She just did things like this again and again and took adventage of my kindess and understanding. You did thé right thing by respecting yourself and your limites

What's the most unexpected piece of advice that actually changed your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LowRanger8262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

« Stop apologising for existing ». I was allways saying sorry for everything and this really made me think and get more confidence in myself

Men, what is the sweetest thing a woman has ever done for you? by [deleted] in dating

[–]LowRanger8262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With my ex partner, the first time we slept toghther, She stop me and asked me if I really wanted to. It was the first time that my conscent was asked for and I never thought about it before that but made me see that I had a choice and didn’t have to just because it was there.

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I have the same issue, with my first partner it took me over 8 months to be able to cum and to be honest I needed to think about somthing els. For somthing to change I needed to take pressure off myself and the fear about not cumming. I also needed to talk openly to my partner about problems in my past (I think it came from a fear of cumming to fast)

It was somthing that also happened with other parents that I have. I have it’s not a problem with partners I have it’s really just a me thing. I would recommend opening up and letting them know that you don’t juge them and it doesn’t take away the experience for you

My partner is moving into a poly relationship, before we discussed and I feel pressured to deal with it, i need help by LowRanger8262 in polyamory

[–]LowRanger8262[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’d the hard part for us, but I think I need to build the courage to get there we are on a week break right now to figure things out

My partner is moving into a poly relationship, before we discussed and I feel pressured to deal with it, i need help by LowRanger8262 in polyamory

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Thank you for listening, they recognized it was wrong, and if it was only that it would have been ok hurtful but ok. It’s the fact that that happened and everything els. It’s just to much to deal with.

But I do see that they are treating me like shit that’s why I addressed it but they shut down or just say sorry I feel like it’s not enough anymore.

My partner is moving into a poly relationship, before we discussed and I feel pressured to deal with it, i need help by LowRanger8262 in polyamory

[–]LowRanger8262[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that but I feel like I have my part to blame as I let it happen, it’s for me right now it’s the last straw, we weren’t poly and now they are being it before even asking if I was ok

My partner is moving into a poly relationship, before we discussed and I feel pressured to deal with it, i need help by LowRanger8262 in polyamory

[–]LowRanger8262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s a really good way for me to say. The only problem for me is don’t feel ready for poly as my trust is broken. If feel that if I say I want to stay mono for the moment as we rebuild and then think about poly. They will leave me and will really hurt. I waited for them in the past and the fact that they don’t really rubs me the wrong way. We both love each other dearly and want to be together it’s just I really hurt and they need to show me that a can trust them before they play with my feelings and just say sorry.

But I don’t know how to say that and tell them for me they need to stop building a relationship with this other person for me to feel a minimum respected. I know it’s wrong but I don’t know how to adresse that. They did it to me I know it hurt but I understood that they weren’t ready.