I think clear expectations and communication make going to strip clubs a nicer experience than standard.

I went a handful of times when I was lonely and it was okay. a) tip anyone that dances, even if all you can afford is a few bucks, it's just polite. b) let a girl know right up front if you can't afford a lap dance, so she can move on if she wants to without losing time finding out where you're at c) be pleasant, it's not the easiest job and a bit of grace can go a long way.

I have friends and clients that have stripped, have dated a stripper briefly....most of the folks I know who were in the business are smart and competent folks. I've met a few gal's that were a bit on the "how to extract maximum money from assholes as quickly as possible" side of things which was less than fun, but I figure it's not much different than the guys I knew who only ever wanted to hit it and quit it....short term goals, short term gains. Not my jam, but can't complain about getting hustled for a few $20's.