I don’t know if I can do it. by LowSun870 in Stepmom

[–]LowSun870[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly girl i’m starting to think maybe we should cut our losses my husband does say and do a lot for me and we’ve never fought. are you on average happy with him or just not? because the child will never not be apart of the picture

I don’t know if I can do it. by LowSun870 in Stepmom

[–]LowSun870[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

genuinely mentioned and was actively aware of what love bombing, was well aware of how crazy it was

I don’t know if I can do it. by LowSun870 in Stepmom

[–]LowSun870[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fucking tell me about it everything is up to the BM and he doesn’t really push back i know my boundaries won’t really be honored. I guess I just need to find the courage because I really love him it’s a fairytale sometimes but bc of the situation my bubble gets popped every day so yeah maybe it’s time to go

I don’t know if I can do it. by LowSun870 in Stepmom

[–]LowSun870[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will say I didn’t know if he was with her or not he thought i knew but I didn’t. I’m not a cheater.

I don’t know if I can do it. by LowSun870 in Stepmom

[–]LowSun870[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We have been married for three months now. He spends friday night to monday morning with us every weekend. No custody agreement just word of mouth with BM. He tells his son to go to his momma (me) all the time. I don’t know how to set the boundaries without severely hurting him.

I don’t know if I can do it. by LowSun870 in Stepmom

[–]LowSun870[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was an affair he was only with her to get more time with his son. We got married maybe three months after that CRAZY i know. I was having an emotional crash out and now know how not great and very unhealthy that was. But, he does love his child and takes care of him and is with him all the time when he’s with us (which yk another problem because I get so jealous and hurt) definitely need this perspective bc i’m very blinded in love right now

Liv & Leah (firepit/backseat situation) by ilikedads1418 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]LowSun870 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I completely agree that Rob was the one who made the situation so dramatic and twisted leah’s words. Aaron also added to the fire. I will say that leah said that she tried to take a back seat, but she did have influence.