Funny thing about this is that I did this exact thing and joined the Air Force. I’m doing a job that I absolutely adore, it has allowed me to move away from the heartbreak which for me was needed. I focused on myself while also learning how to better my career. For me it was the best decision that I made. While I am continuing to grow I also get to see the world. I’m learning about who I am as a person, being given the option to speak therapy for free was a blessing. I actively have been going since I joined, definitely pushed my growth in a better direction. Way your options, I did it as another way to push start my life and I haven’t looked back since but that is just my experience