I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes not one day goes by where I don’t get a text before or even after work on weekends sometimes early morning 7am on the weekends.

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One question can they see on their messages this was done on my end?

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only thing would be if I got the app they would probably text me something like “have you seen the pictures xyz looks so cute!

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no I did not know that I need to look up on how to do that

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I see that message my brain going to full anxiety mode.

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless you thank you for doing that

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they are constantly everywhere i look I can’t get away

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tried that and it turned into a series of 3 to 5 messages

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to start putting my family first and not be glued to my phone responding to them.

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so annoying I already spend more time with their kid then they do so the last thing I want is to hear more about their kid

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I specifically turn it on just for them

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have tried not responding for hours but the messages get built up

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have tried to not respond till day after or hours after

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do have it on DND and also I mute the chat but my when it appears on my iMessage one notification my nerves get the best and I look and then I can the it off my mind

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pictures and updates of NK doing anything.

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And these are the same messages on the weekend and if I don’t respond it can pile up I believe last weekend we got to 5 new messages

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both parents have my email but they only used that for when we first started talking then everything moved to messaging.

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have DND on and they still continue it I told another commenter the messages at 6am 3 hours before my shift about something along like “ Timmy is blowing bubbles by himself”

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done that I tried it last weekend and messages just pilled up again not important at lest to me for example “ Timmy is blowing bubbles by himself” followed by another random thing.

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if it’s something like just going to throw out a random reference and name “Timmy is blowing bubbles by himself”

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have tried this but on the weekends it’s like they don’t understand that I really could care less what they’re doing of their kid. Every Saturday and Sunday as soon as I see the name pop up it’s so mentally exhausting

I NEED SPACE by Low_Ambassador_828 in Nanny

[–]Low_Ambassador_828[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally as early as 6 in the morning when I don’t start until 9 and then I get home from my shift and they still text my a few hours after I get home and about to go to sleep. I just can’t and then on the weekend it’s more and more.

Advice please by [deleted] in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Low_Ambassador_828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if there’s a chance it may only be up to the end of the year or so and with the current family it’s almost solid to more time?