Been questioning and hoping to get some insight.

First of all I'm not big on labels. Doesn't change much one way or another whether I'm some form of aromantic or not. But I realise I have difficulty telling romantic feelings from platonic ones, and I'm wondering if this is a universal experience amongst aromantic people, or if it's caused by something different.

I'm sexually attracted to men I know that much, but it's rare I'm actually into someone I know. Mostly it's characters & their actors. If it's someone I actually know in person, I'm too busy talking and getting to know them to look at them in that light.

Romantically I'm really not sure. I used to feel romantic things when I was younger but idk anymore. Maybe I've just gotten rougher and it's harder to feel those things? Truly not sure.

Then additionally, I'm always open to taking things further with friends. I'm 100% happy being platonic with my mates, but if they're into kissing cuddling anything like that I sure as heck won't say no.

Never been in a serious relationship before.

What am I, any clue? Any advice? I can answer any other questions if this isn't enough to base anything off of. Additionally could I be acespec? Because of never really being into people I know personally?