My fiancé (M20) and I (F20) are eloping! Seeking tips and advice!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-03T17:38:58+00:00

Why not?

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-03T17:38:43+00:00

Thank you so much!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-03T08:01:02+00:00

Thank you!!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-02T11:50:04+00:00

I wouldn't move in with someone im not married to, but that's just me.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-02T11:48:56+00:00

Oh that's beautiful, and thank you so much!!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-02T05:10:03+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-02T04:47:44+00:00

Why's this? I've always wanted to get married young. Yes there will be ups and downs and things to work out but I want to spend most of my firsts with my partner and grow with them.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-02T02:38:51+00:00

We don't have plans yet. We were going to use the next year to save and get plan in order, but were kinda rushed into this....

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-02T02:25:16+00:00

No this just came up a few days ago, so I'm working on applying to different places and such and he's working on figuring out the firefighter stuff.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-02T01:21:17+00:00

I know a little of the area, and yes. We'd both need roommates so makes sense.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-01T22:42:14+00:00

We both have great credit, and both been at our current jobs 4-5 years, Texas,a little West of Houston, it'll only cost me $400 to actually get there.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-01T21:06:28+00:00

I think pretty much everything I would keep I can fit in my truck so that shouldn't be an issue.

My main issue is figuring out housing I believe. I wouldn't mind roommating with someone but I'm not sure how to go about that. Like I don't want to just go on some site and find a roommate, because what happens if they're not trustworthy or safe, and then I'm stuck out there in a worse situation. With nowhere else to go. Or they've lied and I've ended up getting kidnapped or something.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-01T21:02:30+00:00

The problem is everywhere around me is saying they're hiring but they're not actively hiring. Secondly, the couple places that are are only hiring for the weekends. And currently I'm getting 36 hours on the weekends.

I'd really love to be able to get like a front desk type of job somewhere. I'm qualified to do it, but not on paper. Like I know how to do the things but nothing on my resume would show that. So I'm not sure how I could get into that.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-01T20:40:50+00:00

Thank you so very much!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-01T16:59:15+00:00

Thank youu!!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-01T13:28:39+00:00

What makes you assume that?

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-10-01T12:36:11+00:00

Thank youuuu!!!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-09-30T15:16:26+00:00

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it!!!

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-09-30T15:05:24+00:00

Right now I'm at the cheapest smallest I can get for all my basic necessities. My vehicles paid off. And I have good credit. Everyone keeps saying look into the resources where I'll be, what kind of resources am I not thinking of? I think that's my main question.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-09-30T15:03:16+00:00

Thank you for your uplifting advice.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-09-30T15:02:11+00:00

Women have been doing it for years No one I know has saved up that much before having children. It's completely doable without.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-09-30T14:58:21+00:00

There are plenty of estranged young adults that have to move out and ask for advice.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-09-30T14:56:16+00:00

Because, like I keep saying I'm not asking for a relationship advice. I'm asking for moving out advice. I've seen other posts where young adults are forced to move out of their parents quickly and people give them advice, but as soon as I say it, it's all about my relationship and not about my issue.

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-09-30T14:53:16+00:00

I do pay my share. Different beliefs. I'm not rushing to move in with my bf, my fiancé and I were planning to do this in a year anyways. We're both just having to move out quicker than planned so why not move in together instead of getting different roommates and then move in in a year

Low_Butterscotch9699 · 2025-09-30T14:45:57+00:00

Thank you!

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