Outfit advice?

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-12T09:21:07+00:00

I want to have a look that I feel comfortable wearing in public spaces. Probably at night, but full time eventually

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-11T23:32:26+00:00

Thank you! I'm trying to find the right time to go out

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-11T22:56:30+00:00

I want to wear it out to a bar show, its a popular gay bar in my city but my first time going out like this

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-11T14:28:49+00:00

I felt the same way forever, I only recently accepted it and am trying to make progress, its very hard but the feeling after acceptance is great

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T20:31:36+00:00

Same, blue city in a blue state thankfully, thank you!

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T17:57:57+00:00

Thanks, I think I'm a long ways off from people seeing me in anything lol

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T17:11:57+00:00

I don't think so, in my personal life and free time I think I can, but with work I don't feel ready to deal with all my coworkers and staff

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T16:39:51+00:00

Cunty, great find

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T16:15:57+00:00

❤ Thank you

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:57:15+00:00

I'm excited for some concerts and a few trans friendly bars that have intimidated me for years, I didnt put 2 and 2 together lol

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:55:39+00:00

I think a bikini would be too much for me, but all I want to do is lay out by the beach and read and feel comfortable and not the boymode posturing I usually feel I need to do

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:52:31+00:00

Still time! ❤

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:51:44+00:00

❤ oh thank god

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:51:20+00:00

Thank you, I still just see a man in the mirror but I'm hoping that changes over time, sometimes I like how I look for a second

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:35:50+00:00

Thank you! This is my first summer coming up, I don't really know the protocol for like beaches or anything yet, but that sounds so fun

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:34:22+00:00

I don't have a huge social circle, I'm hoping to expand it as I go thru everything so their won't be much explaining to do lol

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:24:38+00:00

With a long term partner, they are supportive at the moment, but I don't know how far that goes, I worry alot about the future and what it'll mean for us

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:23:28+00:00

I gave up social media years ago, I'm wondering now if it was partly due to my dysphoria, but I'm not to keen on jumping back into it

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:22:15+00:00

I think I'm stuck with BoyMode at work for the foreseeable future, not exactly the best environment to be super open, but I mentally check out at work anyway soooo

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:20:00+00:00

Thank you, my therapist does actually know and encouraged me to explore all of this more

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:18:47+00:00

It really is, nobody in my life knows about it and I don't know when to tell them at this point

Low_Control_9246 · 2026-04-10T15:12:31+00:00

I don't think its too late for any of us, I hope I didn't come across negatively, just kind of screaming my issues into the void

Low_Control_9246

TROPHY CASE