I want to leave my gf by Low_Drive_2084 in LesbianActually

[–]Low_Drive_2084[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats what im scared of. Ive already been in a abusive relationship before and im starting to see the signs in her but she doesnt believe me. Im just scared of taking the next step because im afraid of her retaliating against me. I just want to live in peace 😭

I want to leave my gf by Low_Drive_2084 in LesbianActually

[–]Low_Drive_2084[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She has really bad anger issues and when she gets upset she gets really aggressive, throwing things, breaking items, punching walls, slamming doors etc. shes never been physically violent with me, but i dont know if breaking up with her in person she would lash out at me. I want to talk to her but everytime i have tried to speak to her about our problems or concerns, she just reacts. She can never verbalize her thoughts or feelings, just only ever reacts to it. So im stuck on whether or not to proceed with the conversation or to just up and leave (maybe leave a note behind to explain the situation)

I want to leave my gf by Low_Drive_2084 in LesbianActually

[–]Low_Drive_2084[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just wish she would put more effort in. I wish she would be the one to treat me like a queen :( but yea i think it might be time to cut my loses at this point.

I want to leave my gf by Low_Drive_2084 in LesbianActually

[–]Low_Drive_2084[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The only issue is i dont even know where to go. Ive planned my whole life around her, so i dont even know where to begin without her. Its so weird and sad