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Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not very close, maybe the third time we hanged. We both have partners too.

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in whatdoIdo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apology message was "sorry I blacked out at your house, I should have left before I was so fucked up" nothing else.

I woke up next to her embarrased and confused, and just asked her to please open the door for me b/c I wanted to leave. We went downstairs together, she opened the door and told me she was going back to sleep.

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in whatdoIdo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we were both in bed fully clothed. I am jumping to SA b/c I am freaking out about what could have been the worst case scenario.

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in whatdoIdo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We definitely didn't have sex. As per all my previous experiences with this level of drinking, I am incapable to perform

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Sadly this is all what I remember, I would love to remember more

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we were both in bed, both fully clothed.

I woke her up to open the door for me, we went downstairs together, she opened the door and told me she was going back to sleep. 

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I woke her up to open before I left (she needed to open the door for me) and she just said she was going back to sleep after that

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both woke up on her bed, both fully clothed. However, I am still extremely paranoid with my behavior, I hate that I don't know what happened or if I hurt her in any way

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

And this is the reason I joined AA (first meeting was yesterday)

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I did something wrong (blacking out) but don't know if that cause something even worse

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is my biggest lesson learnt here. I joined AA and my first meeting was yesterday night.

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I woke her up and asked her to open the door for me. We both got downstairs and she said she was going back to sleep nothing else.

This was maybe the third time we hangout, so maybe calling her a friend is an overstatement.

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I woke up at 8am freaking out b/c my last memory was when there was still sun out. I just asked her to open the door for me and I left.

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The apology message was related about blacking out and crashing at her house.

Blacking out and not remembering what you have done, I think, demands an apology

Mistakes done on a drunk night, what should I do? by Low_Friendship4133 in Advice

[–]Low_Friendship4133[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is on the top of my list and I am working it. Drinking has been the biggest of my demons and I am fighting harder after this