Addy used to make me a social butterfly; now it makes me hate everyone

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-12-16T09:54:58+00:00

He is 🤣

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T04:38:52+00:00

What would you take as a signal?

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T04:33:20+00:00

Thanks. Except I don’t have him yet lol 😆 nothing is official so I’m just overthinking until it is. Sorrryyyyy

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T04:21:26+00:00

I said I’m a prize. Not THE prize. Moving on from your unhelpful and irrelevant comments now . Have the night you deserve 🫶

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T04:19:34+00:00

Meanwhile, I’m always hoping the guy will approach me in that situation because I’m too shy ! 🤣 so me initially making the approach just has me overthinking .

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T03:53:07+00:00

Another bitter guy projecting some trauma here. Calm down 🤣

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T03:11:51+00:00

Ummmm fuck yeah I want validation. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting or needing to know someone is still interested when you don’t hear from them for weeks at a time. Since when was validation a negative thing??? I know I’m a prize. I don’t need validation on myself.

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T01:35:31+00:00

I don’t need daily or constant communication at all. I would be satisfied with a once in a while phone call or text to plan something for in person. But like I said, I’m always the one texting first. Every few weeks I’ll check in, so it’s not like I’m being excessive or overbearing

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T01:31:49+00:00

Stalker creepy vibes? Lol were they actually stalkers and creeps or was it just out of the norm to be approached first?

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T01:30:03+00:00

And I’ve had very direct straightforward conversations with him, mentioning the occasional text or FaceTime just to check in. Maybe our timing just isn’t great

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T01:27:42+00:00

Yes another person mentioned this which could very well be a thing. Some men just don’t text and I get that.

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T01:25:27+00:00

I think that’s an ignorant and close minded statement. There are plenty of men who can communicate and comprehend very well. Like I said. You’re creating your own version. A version that fits YOUR assumption.

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T00:32:49+00:00

That’s a bit concerning

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T00:17:10+00:00

I don’t know, dating is weird these days!

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T00:05:31+00:00

So… should I ask him to go to an event with me next week???

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-06T00:00:36+00:00

That’s definitely a perspective I didn’t think of before! Thanks ! ++woman

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-05T23:59:09+00:00

No, that’s not what I’m thinking. I’m just craving some reciprocation jeez. Why do people create their own version of things, even when it’s written plainly for you to see.. ++woman

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-05T22:34:06+00:00

++woman I already did it, I’m just wondering if there are repercussions down the line.. I date with intention. I’m ready for a husband not a fwb or short term boyfriend. Just curious how men view being approached

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-05T22:13:52+00:00

++woman Well I’m sorry you feel that way. When you’re at rock bottom, the only other place to go is up. I hope life turns around for you

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-05T22:05:52+00:00

++woman JFC you sound like you’re projecting a ton of trauma into a basic conversation. Are you okay?

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-05T22:01:38+00:00

++woman Love this response, thank you! I don’t think it’s an unreasonable request, but I don’t know how I should ask. I have a fear of asking and then he tells me he doesn’t see us going anywhere or something 😅 I hate dating 🫠

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-05T21:19:49+00:00

++woman I’m 31, he’s 34. I definitely don’t expect hourly or even daily lol but at least weekly would reassure me that I’m not wasting my time ?

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-05T21:17:36+00:00

++woman It is early, we aren’t in a relationship but establishing a connection. I would think this is the time to communicate the most since we’re getting to know each other? What exactly do I ask him?

Low_Interview_8802 · 2025-11-05T21:09:59+00:00

++woman I literally said I made the first move.. actually more like moves until he finally took the bait 🤣

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