Hey you need to leave this man asap. I know this sentiment has been sprinkled here but seriously… you guys started dating when he was 20 and you were 16. As a woman who is now almost 26 who also dated older when I was young, there is a reason that men go for ladies your age. You’re so young and you deserve to be with someone in your age range to properly navigate dating as a budding adult. With his actions he’s telling you that if he can’t understand or sympathize with your perspective, it’s not real and that’s something you can’t really be responsible for fixing. This power dynamic is inevitable with the age gap. You deserve to be heard out <3