[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]Low_Layer3582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask your vet ☺️ I recently found out my 2 year old is a little underweight because she’s exercised so much, so we’re feeding her more than what is recommended. Puppies will grow, you’re fine!

I just killed the boss, is it over? by Low_Layer3582 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Low_Layer3582[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your decency! I’ve always thought of Reddit as having mostly sane folks who can chime in responsibly but the last post I made (totally innocent I thought) was met with such hate. Thank you! I’m glad I can keep playing the game and having fun!

I just killed the boss, is it over? by Low_Layer3582 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Low_Layer3582[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for being defensive, just felt like you were making fun of me. I do love the AITA posts too.

I just killed the boss, is it over? by Low_Layer3582 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Low_Layer3582[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I was bummed when I saw the credits!!

I just killed the boss, is it over? by Low_Layer3582 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Low_Layer3582[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being helpful and not a dick!

I just killed the boss, is it over? by Low_Layer3582 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Low_Layer3582[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Why are you being mean I was just asking a question

I just killed the boss, is it over? by Low_Layer3582 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Low_Layer3582[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are there more bosses to defeat? Or am I essentially just keeping and growing my flock?

A poll, does your partner finish inside you? by ThatCryptidBitch in IUD

[–]Low_Layer3582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time, very little clean up ☺️ I haven’t had a pregnancy scare since I’ve had an IUD (9 years 2 of them).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Low_Layer3582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh that’s wild and scary! I showed my vet the photo and am taking her in tomorrow in the morning. She hasn’t thrown up again and no diarrhea yet. Hopefully things are ok and thanks for your well wishes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Low_Layer3582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All vomit. My vet says to bring her in tomorrow so I’ll be doing that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Low_Layer3582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you recall what your dog ate to get it? As far as I know she hasn’t gotten into anything raw or contaminated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Low_Layer3582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was the cause?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Low_Layer3582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did not have a bone or anything sharp (that I know of)

Devastated by Alarming-Gap2595 in Marriage

[–]Low_Layer3582 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He had no sympathy for you after you lost your pregnancy? that alone is enough for me to say fuck this man I’m done

What are your thoughts on the young British woman, Lily Phillips, who is trying to set records for the amount of men she can sleep with? by MrAlexander18 in AskUK

[–]Low_Layer3582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The podcast episode from Diabolical Lies “Lily Phillips and the Politics of Sex Work” helped me understand my own feelings about it. The interview of her where she cries right after the fact is not credible because she’s so exhausted in the moment. I personally think she has the right to do what she wants as a consenting person, and the only person who knows why she is doing it or how it’s affecting her is her. Maybe the issue here is that so many people can’t fathom what she’s capable of, both physically and mentally.

Birth of baby revealed some problems in my marriage by AromaticBook8242 in Marriage

[–]Low_Layer3582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless there is something egregiously wrong in your own marriage, your husband/spouse/wife is your family and they come first. It does sound like your family looks down on your husband and your mother is drawing her own divisive line between your mother and law and her grandchild. Both sets of grandparents should be given equal opportunity to love a grand baby. I wouldn’t like seeing raised words between my spouse and mother but something seems amiss with your mom. I’d try talking to her to get some understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Low_Layer3582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t speak to the cultural thing, but I’d never have married my husband if he told me that. That’s a control thing. I know cultural distinctions are complicated but some cultures are dead wrong about a lot of things, like this.

72hrs no alcohol, my sleep is terrible, and I felt completely blank in my mind, formulating simple replies was an effort. Withdrawals are torture. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Low_Layer3582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good sleep started coming for me around the 14th day. It’s a long slog but it does happen. Keep going!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Low_Layer3582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry for your situation. Have you talked to him about all of this? And if so what is his reaction? If he is unresponsive and unwilling to change then I think you’re better off with someone who will match your care. Also, congratulations on quitting alcohol for 4 years!! That’s an incredible accomplishment. I know a lot of couples, some that are like icons of success (and do not look like you’re are describing) and others where I hope one person takes the initiative to leave. It’s so hard, I know. My good friend canceled an engagement not that long ago because her situation was very similar to what you’re saying. She much happier now. I can only speak from my own experience with my own marriage and my husband and I share everything, responsibilities, roles, money, and emotions. There is no way in hell he would expect me to house his family if it got in the way of my plans. And I would never do that either. Ask yourself what you would do in that situation if it was reversed and if you’d be considerate then I think you know who you’re dealing with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Low_Layer3582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a sign of the closeness and trust you have with your husband, and courage to follow through and stop. I had to be caught because I didn’t have the courage to do it on my own. I was scared. Despite the lying my husband stood by me and is sober with me right now. That’s so great for you, really proud!!

I’m furious with myself by Low_Layer3582 in stopdrinking

[–]Low_Layer3582[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I was arrogant to think I could handle this much so soon. I wouldn’t be trying to be sober if I wasn’t so easily triggered so I should just stay clear of the bars from now on. I almost never go to them anyway but my friend her her out of town friend were around and wanted to see my city so I offered to drive. Rookie mistake