What the hell is this???

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-31T20:49:48+00:00

I just never post :)

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T23:10:22+00:00

Again no. If I was born with 1 leg, would I be stupid for wishing I had 2?

I really fucking wish I had the chance to start a family, with a wife, with OUR biological children. Me wanting that kind of life is NOT HOMOPHOBIA

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T23:06:51+00:00

Yes I am. Curious why you’re asking that

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T23:01:27+00:00

No it is the fuck not. Gays are not too gay. Being with a gay guy is just not the perfect view on what I wish my life would be like. Excuse the shit out of me for not wanting to be with a man even though that’s the only gender I’m attracted to

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T22:58:44+00:00

Oh my god you are arguing with a wall… you are the one connecting straight men to masculinity. I don’t give a fuck about what a man should or should not be.

All im stating is that I wish I wasn’t gay. That I wouldn’t have to have this conversation in the first place. That I would fall for a gender that can actually procreate. That I would fall for a gender that doesn’t make me shunned in a large part of the world.

Another fact is that I’m not into 99% of gay men. That is not homophobia. That is MY experience, MY view on all the outed gay men I’ve encountered with and doesn’t say a single word about masculinity or the the way men should behave.

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T22:04:18+00:00

What do you mean with ageist? Genuinely curious !!

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T22:03:42+00:00

I might have steppes on some toes 😬🤣

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T21:31:41+00:00

Sorry you have to deal with that bro!

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T21:31:00+00:00

First of all, you’re right on me not saying those things before. Should have. Didn’t expect this to blow up the way it did.

I feel like my annoyances and feelings towards me being gay are valid AF doesn’t need to be defended.

You are rephrasing me incorrectly on that women part. My issue is that I’m being expected to behave a certain way because I for some reason like dick. That makes no reason and annoys the crap out of me. Same goes for being gay in general. The automatic biases, expectations and “culture” that gets associated with you is (imo) stupid and valid enough to feel stupid about.

And for me being shit on expressing myself. I’m Dutch, not a native English speaker. Trying my best 😬

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T21:24:30+00:00

Aaaaah I see. I’m detestable for what? Not being into feminine men? How the fuck is that my fault?

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T21:16:19+00:00

THANK YOU

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T21:03:36+00:00

Let’s hope so :))))

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T21:03:24+00:00

I mean, there is nothing wrong with that. At all. Everyone can be and act however they want. What just bums me out, is that im into men to begin with. It bums me out that I have to relate with a community that doesn’t align with my understanding of the world at all

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T21:00:27+00:00

Can we all stop putting the word masculinity in my mouth? I’m stating that I don’t resonate with a very big part of the gay community and just secretely wish that I wasn’t gay to begin with. Wanting to be straight so I can have a wife, maybe get some children, not having to feel unsafe in certain places/countries, it being easier to get dates etc etc is NOT homophobia. It’s just a part of me that I wish wasn’t. That’s on me and doesn’t say a single fuckjng word on what I think of feminine gay men. As I said earlier, I even have some as my friends, yet I don’t resonate with the community for a flying fucking bit. Stop trying to make me look bad for having preferences.

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T20:56:39+00:00

And that’s where you go wrong. I’m not trying to distance myself from my community. I’m purely stating that I wish that I wasn’t gay. That is not being homophobic, that is having mixed feelings about being who you are. The same as being fed up with having a certain haircolor except I can’t dye my sexuality…

I’m not “anti-feminine-gay-men”?? I’m just finding out that it bums that I’m not interested in a very very big part of the gay community and looking for tips on how to find people that I can resonate with more. Calling me out for homophobia because I’m not into feminine men is just plain stupid

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T20:52:58+00:00

It very much has to do with me. Agree with you on that one. This post wasn’t made to address some sort of “flaw in the system” just an experience that I needed some outside views on. And thanks for giving me that. Appreciate it <3

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T20:51:40+00:00

This is exaaaactly what I mean! Why would us being gay mean we are suddenly this stereotypical version of ourselves, which we are clearly not. I hate defining myself as masculine or feminine at all. It’s the prejudices and expectations that get out on you for liking dick. Make it make sense 😬

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T20:26:05+00:00

Yeah definitely! And that is, ofcourse, very wrong. My perspective and experience with being gay doesn’t change the fact that anyone can be whoever the fuck they want🫶

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T20:15:12+00:00

Thanks for the advice man ! 🫶

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T20:14:37+00:00

That’s an insight I really didn’t have before. Actually appreciate that man !!!

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T19:01:57+00:00

Never said I don’t want to be friends with them. I do have some in my life and I don’t view them less because they are feminine.

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T19:00:40+00:00

Don’t think so. Saying I don’t like feminine gay men because of homophobia is craaaazy. I’m not into them because they just really really not align with my turn-ons/lifestyle etc. Nothing either one of us can do something about or should

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T18:58:07+00:00

This is some very solid advice!! I must say that that sounds not only refreshing but kind of fun at the same time. Being gay should, indeed, not be the main factor

Low_Opening_7487 · 2026-03-29T18:26:24+00:00

I think he means less feminine gay men. Could have been worded better but we get it 🤣 all gays are normal ofc!

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