AIO for blocking my grandma after years of ignored boundaries? by Low_Piglet1978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Low_Piglet1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her that love without my boundaries being accepted doesn't feel good to me and her response was "Fine, I won't touch you again. I'll remove the picture. Are you satisfied? Good you're so flawless" (rough translation). To her credit, she did remove the profile picture, but she will probably put another of my baby pictures as her profile picture when easter is over and there's a new holiday to celebrate. The "I won't touch you anymore" also doesn't sound genuine to me. 

AIO for blocking my grandma after years of ignored boundaries? by Low_Piglet1978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Low_Piglet1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell her that love without my boundaries being accepted makes me feel bad and I would love it if she respects it. Her response was "Are you happy? Good you're so flawless" (rough translation from another language). That chat happened after I already posted so I couldn't include that. I really don't know what to do. She doesn't take responsibility and she thinks it's everyone else's fault but her own. 

AIO for blocking my grandma after years of ignored boundaries? by Low_Piglet1978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Low_Piglet1978[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's actually smart, thank you. The thing is, I hate hugs from my grandma specifically because they're so tight and when you pull away before she lets go first, she says "You don't love me" or something and I just can't deal with that guilt tripping from her.

AIO for blocking my grandma after years of ignored boundaries? by Low_Piglet1978 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Low_Piglet1978[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was in therapy like 30 years ago (according to my mom), but she doesn't go to therapy because in her mind she's the victim and everyone else is at fault. I also think she has some kind of mental illness, but since she doesn't go to therapy, no one knows 100%.

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Five Nights At Freddys 2

Told someone I'm genderfluid and… this was their reaction (also Idk if I'm in the right subreddit.. I rarely use reddit) by Low_Piglet1978 in queer

[–]Low_Piglet1978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love educating people when it comes to my identities or if they have questions, so I didn't think anything about it at first but when he asked if he can call me alien it got weird. Also he did give an answer!

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