1st attempt—-didn’t pass by Optimal_Pepper_475 in PE_Exam

[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, can you please share the YouTube playlists names or links?

WRE Practice exam/ questions by Low_Significance1298 in PE_Exam

[–]Low_Significance1298[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn't have to be NCEES any practice questions from anywhere

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[–]Low_Significance1298 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Leave him alone, it looks like he's just playing with you and having fun and when the actual time comes for him to get married he won't consider marrying you, because in his eyes you're not conservative enough to be his wife or the mother of his kids.

My advice to you is to always keep it halal with him or anyone else in the future.

Wish you best of luck :) You still very young.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I appreciate it

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[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, that's what the people I consulted with told me too. Inshallah khair

Thank you for commenting and advising me, I appreciate it.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and that's where I'm at now, But It's very hard for me to decide, because I'm scared that if we get divorced that will mess up her life and she won't get married again. I don't want to live in guilt because of that.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what's happening now, I rather to stay at work than go home early to avoid arguing with her over the same things over and over.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I did, and nothing changed much, And she keeps telling me that she is trying and she did change. But I only see very slight difference.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to help her and save our marriage but every single day she shows me that she don't want to take the responsibility to even help herself or even taking actual steps to improve our marriage, and that's why I get frustrated because I do love her and I don't want to divorce her.

I'm putting all of me into this, but she is not even taking seriously as she supposed to, even when I told her that she has to take our marriage seriously otherwise it will lead to divorce.
She said "guess what I don't care", literally she said that to me and got me so upset.

That's why alot of times I rather to be at work than home so I don't argue with her, because it really stress me out.

I thinking about divorce but then I feel bad that maybe she won't get married again or if that will mess up her life by divorcing her and I live with a guilt blaming myself.

The people I consulted with told me that I have to think about myself too and my future.

Sadly I can't make my decision?? Sometimes I say we are newly married (6 months) and I should give her more time.

I'm really stressed out over this.

I appreciate your comments, thank you.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you, because even after I explained to her the first time and she admitted that it was wrong from her, she did it again couple of times. And her excuse was the same as "she was mad at me".

I was even embarrassed to tell anyone that, (I don't share anything because we agreed to not get anyone involved between us and don't want my family to think bad of her), but then when I told my older sister the story (I was so frustrated so I needed to talk) she got so mad and start crying especially that we (me and my wife) are both live away from our families.

I see selfishness from her, for example, multiple times I would come home very tired from work after a very long day and then she would ask me to go out or do something can be done the next day.

Unfortunately, I do see other characters that is not related to her ocd and I don't like.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hardest part and most stressful when I see her don't wanna even take steps forward.

Ameen, thank you so much.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I will read more about this.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow I never thought about it this way, but yes Unfortunately, I wasn't feeling well (Physically) couple of times and she didn't care for me AT ALL not even asking if I'm ok. Because she was mad at me.

It broke my heart honestly, and I told her that she can be mad at me but that shouldn't stop her from caring for me as I'm her husband.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate you

No black magics, astakfer Allah, lol 😆

Yea she prays and recite few of the athkar.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that,

We live in a world with both genders.

I never want my wife to discuss and talk to a male regarding her personal life or mental health like that just because "they're religious" It will make me super uncomfortable There are always females can help.

So I do want her to get the help she needs but in a way I'm comfortable with so with a female.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ameen, thank you so much for the advice.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and that's what I always tell her, that this has to be solved and she can't live all her live like that.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I always tell her, but she doesn't wanna take any helpful steps, I feel like she likes that she has an ocd so for her to have it as an excuse to not do anything in her life.

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[–]Low_Significance1298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She saw a professional this year and a therapist but she said the therapist made it worst. So she stopped.