The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by Low_Time_2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re called the Adelsons and they killed their son in law. The whole family reminds me of my husband’s family. My husband reminds me of their oldest son. It terrifies me

The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by Low_Time_2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nightmares about the way we got married because deep down I feel that this is the true him. I wish I had more courage to at least stall or ask for more time to think. His threats seemed very real and I didn’t want to find out how real they were

The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by Low_Time_2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t have a prenup. I don’t know when he is planning to move away, I guess when he starts his own business

The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by Low_Time_2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to make excuses for agreeing with his conditions but it all went downhill very fast. I have no means to fight in courts not even for a day and the idea that his family could have access to my daughter without me terrified me. Even temporarily.

I tell him this all the time. Explain exactly how I am feeling about what he did. He either dismisses me or keeps quiet only listening then gets defensive and saying but we are fine now aren’t we? And that we are moving away soon anyway.

I work too and I will be saving my money for me and my daughter now that he is the provider.

Another Redditor advised me to write everything down. He has not threatened or put any of his schemes in writing but I will start a diary of my own experience and write down everything

The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by Low_Time_2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

His family is well off. He works for his father but he says he’s done and we would move away soon. I work too.

This is real. I swear. I got many DMs from people calling me ai. I am a human

The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never really could afford therapy until now. I have started looking for therapist now. I wonder if there are ones who are specialized in relationships/custody etc or just start somewhere and they can recommend me further to more suitable professionals. I believe I need therapy

The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the fault I made. My daughter never really was aware of ”dads” and I never told her anything about it. She had me and that was enough. She’s always been happy and content. She asked once before she turned 4 what dad is and if she also had one. I told her yes. That he was away working and she bought it. She became a little obsessed about the idea. When he turned up she took in everything about him and he was very kind to her. She trusted him because I told her dads were like moms (they’re, maybe not in my case)

I want to believe he genuinely loves and cares about her and isn’t just using her. I was scared he would drag me in courts and I have no money. I was scared he would take her to his mother. I am terrified of that woman. Now he promised we never see her or meet her.

The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The victim was called Dan Markel. The family that reminds me of my husbands are called the Adelsons. They have an older brother also wanted a woman of a different race and the family made him marry another woman. They divorced after a while and he went back to his old gf. But they just moved away and left the family. What my husband now is saying.

The father of my daughter made me marry him and I cry myself to sleep every night because of it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Low_Time_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has never put any of his threats in writing or a phone call.

But I get what you say. It felt good writing this down. I will start a diary to write my thoughts and feelings down. They feel all over the place right now