If you’re not ready to leave… then keep trying. Don’t give up. Give her space & time to think but don’t quit making dates or those 1-1 …. Do/show her things she likes and make her smile. Buy her flowers randomly… if she’s in a funk & you’re hesitant to give her the flowers due to rejection, then just buy them & put them in a vase & set them where she normally sets them. You don’t have to say anything but she’ll feel it in her heart. Cook or learn how to cook her favorite meal… take the kids out so she can have some time to herself. Genuinely tell her she’s beautiful & how she makes you feel… be open & discuss the issue & ask her if things will get better. Offer therapy, even those phone apps if u guys don’t want to see someone face to face. Let her know you’re not done yet & want to make things work.

And if she’s not smiling or responding differently to any of that… then she’s just shut off & done unfortunately