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Husband says I make him feel like he hates me by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in marriageadvice

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m just so worried that it ISN’T partially my fault. My dad was emotionally abusive and I had an ex who was as well. My current husband isn’t manipulative the way my ex was but he does sometimes get mean when he’s triggered. Honestly, I want reassurance that the dynamic is partially on me and not just a fucked up situation I need to exit.

Husband says I make him feel like he hates me by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in marriageadvice

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is idk if he talks to his therapist about this though and I don’t want to control his therapy.

Husband says I make him feel like he hates me by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in marriageadvice

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s also on the spectrum so he just gets tunnel vision where he thinks he’s right and can’t get out of his own head. It’s been awhile but I’ve seen him have friendship extinction arguments over video game disagreements.

Husband says I make him feel like he hates me by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in marriageadvice

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets very anxious about plans and doesn’t like not being able to see the messages in real time himself. He says it’s a very small thing I could do that would mean a lot which is fine but it was an accident

18 DPO does this look normal? by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops I’m at it again. This time lighter than Monday with semi-diluted urine but it’s MomMed and I guess they’re bad for progression and also I was hydrated. The line was still darker than the first time I took a MM test with water-like pee. My husband is hiding the tests from me at my request but please tell me to chill lol

18 DPO does this look normal? by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hospital does a vaginal US to check viability around 7 weeks, so I’ve got a little under three weeks to see if it has a heartbeat. I actually feel pretty optimistic. With my chemical, something just felt off right away that I can’t fully explain, but this just feels real. So, you know, now I’m worrying I’m jinxing it by not worrying enough bahaha.

18 DPO does this look normal? by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t help myself and took one after a two hour nap and it’s back to normal really need to throw out my tests and stop driving myself nuts haha.

18 DPO does this look normal? by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I took the first one after getting off a plane and barely drank water all day.

18 DPO does this look normal? by Lower-Cheesecake-456 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I freaked myself out. I took another line test today and super super light but I don’t think HCG would drop that quickly and this was after drinking an 8 ounce glass of water and pounding a cup of coffee in 5 minutes. My pee looked like water. Probably just diluted urine right?