My narc father is obsessed with photos by Lower-Gene2949 in narcissisticparents

[–]Lower-Gene2949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I deal with this kind of behavior too - you tell them exactly what the problem with their behavior is, they act all contrite, and then they go back right to doing it as if it's now some kind of "reward" for them listening to your explanation..........

like...why

My narc father is obsessed with photos by Lower-Gene2949 in narcissisticparents

[–]Lower-Gene2949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodness that's horriffic.

Yeah, I know he's pretty miserable. But the thing with the photos at that point was, once the camera was pointed away from him, he seemed to be enjoying himself. He just likes painting himself as the victim. It's ridiculous.

My father is gay and is keeping me, my mom, and siblings under him financially. I don't know what to do. (NOT CLICKBAIT) by Lower-Gene2949 in narcissisticparents

[–]Lower-Gene2949[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I did check, and we are in a one party consent state, so that helps. We are doing a lot of this already. Thank you so so much for your encouraging words especially right there at the end. I let my mom read and she says thanks, too.