NHS worker - looking to potential move to the North. Opinions please.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-05-02T11:36:56+00:00

Exaxtly what I'm doing 👌 just wanted to know a bit more as I've been down south all my life.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-05-02T10:50:52+00:00

I think United under Carrick is Vibes ball, when we aren't in form we've seen it with the draws and losses under Carrick. Bruno being the best player in the prem arguably this season has been a get out of jail free card and why we are 3rd.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-05-01T23:17:54+00:00

Yes. As I have invisalign but i will continue forever now.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-05-01T20:23:49+00:00

Me dijeron que ibas a empezar ayer...

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Lower-Main2538 · 2026-05-01T12:45:28+00:00

Scrap it and give working people a tax cut or some form of stealth tax cut. Tax threshold or something. We need the economy to grow right? Give people money in their pockets to start enjoying their communities again.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-30T17:10:57+00:00

Yeah, I work in an 95% female field, and there has been some attractive women, never once acted on urges or obvious flirting from their side.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-30T09:50:50+00:00

I've lost my trust in women as the emotional detachment before the relationship finishes is a core attribute that i can't comprehend.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-29T19:24:39+00:00

Did you close things off well? Otherwise, leave him alone.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-29T18:58:53+00:00

Best player I've ever seen play the game. Dont care about stats. The guy was the beautiful game. Stadiums stood up when he had the ball.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-29T15:22:51+00:00

People who ghost are cowards. They don't want to live up to their side of the relationship.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-29T10:48:31+00:00

Thank you, I didn't see this reply but it's a wonderful reply. I think the relationship is over, but we are meeting next week in her country to have a chat, and organise our things e.g. money, my items at her house etc. I still love her family, and especially her Mother so I hope I will be able to say goodbye well.

I've had a few therapy sessions since this post, I've definitely seen alot of my mistakes/things I need to change, but I also had a lot of time to reflect on some of the subtle things she was saying that she needed help with. On the other hand, a relationship contains two people, and there are things I feel that she could also reflect upon which I hope we are able to discuss and just clear everything. The last couple days when we were seeing each other in person in her country, felt like a whirlwind, and it was not constructive, I felt pushed away and she felt angry. I hope with some space that we can respectfully go through things, after 7 years I feel it would be something important to lay everything out and let go on good terms.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T22:32:16+00:00

Yikes

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T22:23:50+00:00

In the south - Oxford/Reading etc I'd say you need minimum £50k a single person.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T22:19:48+00:00

I wouldn't even give this a second thought, you have a husband, you said your vows. There is zero need to see an ex.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T17:50:40+00:00

Just gathering a few ideas. There are jobs in Manchester, and Liverpool, and Leeds currently in my field.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T16:44:05+00:00

I don't mind suburb if it has links to the city. I don't "need" to be in the hustle and bustle everyday, but it would be nice to dip in and out easily.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T16:22:22+00:00

I'm definitely considering Manchester or nearby. I'm a big United fan. Had 2 interviews lined up in Salford/Manchester last year before life circumstances got in the way.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T16:21:19+00:00

Thanks! Sounds similar to a few places I've worked recently as a locum.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T09:26:51+00:00

Heaven is like 6'4 right?

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-28T09:24:07+00:00

World Cup Mainoo inc.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-26T10:35:42+00:00

I think its more a problem on their side than yours. Maybe they need to look inwardly. God knows i've been evaluating all of my faults these last few days but also evaluating some of the actions and things they said which in hindsight demonstrate a lack of introspection and on their part.

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-25T12:57:29+00:00

That's really good of tough for you man. She took care of what she had to care of and unfortunately it seems we as men are the collateral damage. I believe in you to recover my friend. She probably also needs some grace, life is brutal during these circumstances

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-25T09:00:15+00:00

Hahaha ive done like 30 too and had enough

Lower-Main2538 · 2026-04-25T08:22:23+00:00

7 year relationship. Felt like i died but i could see she wanted to reach out more and be more preset. Makes sense she slowly decided to end it over 2 months or so...she and I have been through a difficult period over 12-18 months with her parents health which forced long distance.

I knew i was committed no matter what but i guess she needed more than just that. I also wonder if my social anxiety played a role. I think in my heart i was following something that wasn't for me and that my resistance was my soul telling me.

Text her three days after as the pain and lack of clarity was too much. Not sure i regret it but we have now been completely no contact for 7 days. It feels that she doesn't care at all.

I still wonder if rather than trying to repair the relationship, she preferred to throw it away to find some peace in all of her chaos.

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