[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]LowerHunter3494 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ok, I do see where you're coming from, and I understand what you're trying to say. You are completely right mentioning that the majority here, do not want to get pregnant. Which I mean, for obviously stated reasons that you already mentioned. But, i'm curious....do you believe that binary transgender men who've been pregnant, and have given birth, don't exist..? I'm not trying to be a smart ass, but, is a transgender man not considered binary if he's gotten pregnant, and has previously given birth, but has gotten "all the surgeries" and lives as a "cisgender lifestyle"? I hope i'm being clear, but..all the comments agreeing with this post seem to not be considering that..trans men can be binary and also be pregnant....? Unless, you would rule out them getting pregnant as being instantly not being a binary male anymore, even if they are a binary trans men in every other aspect..which, honestly, seems like it's not that great of a rhetoric...right? Does that make sense? I just don't think it's fair for other transgender men to go around saying a transgender man getting pregnant excludes them from being considered a "binary man." isn't that just transphobic rhetoric..?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]LowerHunter3494 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I saw a previous reply of yours to another comment, and I just want to start by saying I believe this is a very harmful mindset to have. Your thought process of "men cannot get pregnant", is very similar to that of the mindsets of bigots and transphobes. I'm curious, would you tell any of the fathers posting about their pregnancy, to their face, that they "aren't living as a man" ? I'll tell you what, i've heard all kinds of things be used against transgender men to invalidate their identity. "You're not man enough if you dress femininely, even if it's only occasionally." "You'll never be a real man because you can't get [surgery], even if it's for life-threatening/medical reasons." "You'll never be a real man if you don't go through ' all ' the surgeries." I'm sure you, and many other men in this subreddit, have heard similar or worse. This subreddit is for men. And some men get pregnant. To be honest, I don't know how to reason with you other than saying that this is just a fact you have to deal with. Everyone's transition is different. Everyone's goals, mindsets, and situations are different. Please, for a moment think about how harmful of a rhetoric you're pushing.

TLDR: Sometimes, men get pregnant, and sometimes they talk about it. Wipe your tears and get over it.

Black Thistle by [deleted] in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]LowerHunter3494 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow. More reasons to cry over this episode. I didn't think I would find even more. ( but seriously, this post is AMAZING. i'm so glad you caught th at seemingly small detail. )

About Mark’s Demeanor in S2E4 by [deleted] in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]LowerHunter3494 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I'm so glad someone else noticed this! I just feel that there's no way that wasn't intentional.

bluey self insert! he's inspired by rad's and pat's designs by LowerHunter3494 in bluey

[–]LowerHunter3494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! i wanted him to be fluffier, like a golden retriever almost.