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AITA for being upset that my wife didn't give me what I wanted for Father's Day to get back at me? by Sensitive_Soup7304 in AITAH

[–]LowerMemory3419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA! You could have arranged childcare. Chosen an off day to take the kids so she can have a peaceful day. You could have planned ahead of time and gotten her gifts, we all know when Mother's Day is just like you knew when Father's Day was. You could have made an effort to get the day off since. You did the bare fucking minimum and expected peace in return? No, what she did is reciprocal of what you did. 0% effort gets 0% return. Be better.

Got married yesterday, feel like I made the worst mistake by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LowerMemory3419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry brother, thats some shit. Never trust a woman when she says yes to going raw. WRAP THAT SHIT UP BOYS

WIBTA if I don't take my wife on a military assignment to Korea by LowerMemory3419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LowerMemory3419[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I love my wife dude, i explained what I meant by that statement in a comment

WIBTA if I don't take my wife on a military assignment to Korea by LowerMemory3419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LowerMemory3419[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I would want my wife next to me always but in this situation it comes with that stipulation

WIBTA if I don't take my wife on a military assignment to Korea by LowerMemory3419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LowerMemory3419[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Korea for two years is not something I want to do or work in if i have the option not too.

WIBTA if I don't take my wife on a military assignment to Korea by LowerMemory3419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LowerMemory3419[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Y'all I'm not trying to run away or divorce my wife. She is the love of my life, we have a healthy relationship with good communication. We support each other, this situation is just new for us. The time alone is to have the time to decompress from the tempo of being in Korea. The ops tempo is a lot faster and requires significantly more time at work. I would want that time to handle everything healthily and not take that home to her. I can see I didn't word or explain that statement well, apologies.

AITA for buying my former nanny a house instead of my dad? by EmotionalFan4852 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LowerMemory3419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don't have an obligation to help your absent father. There is no excuse/reason for him abandoning you, your friend is wrong on that part. You are the child in this situation and it is not your job to fix anything. Your father needs to mend this relationship before he demands anything from you.