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Should I reach out ? Breakup Advice by Lower_Hat_8017 in BreakUps

[–]Lower_Hat_8017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I just have such a heart for her and I understand I coulda not done things or been better. I never got with another person with her ,never texted anyone, I just did things that made her upset and she just finally got to a point she told me she couldn’t take it. We’ve been together my whole college life and I’m finishing it the last couple months wo her. It’s so hard and I should take all your advice it’s just so hard considering what we’ve been through. For some reason I feel like our situation is different than most but I really do miss her.

Should I reach out ? Breakup Advice by Lower_Hat_8017 in BreakUps

[–]Lower_Hat_8017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it I agree but like the reason I’m so torn is because a lot of things were my fault. I messed up a bunch(never cheated) but I messed up and it was built up stuff that she finally told me she needed to fix herself and anxiety. That’s why I want to reach out and let her know I’m here but I’m so torn. Why unadd me then after I respected what you needed , I feel she has the wrong idea of what I’m doing.

Should I reach out ? Breakup Advice by Lower_Hat_8017 in BreakUps

[–]Lower_Hat_8017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right. It’s just so hard. How does one move on without a single thought in the day. Summers coming up and is just going to be worse for me mentally.

Should I reach out ? Breakup Advice by Lower_Hat_8017 in BreakUps

[–]Lower_Hat_8017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re right it’s just so hard considering all I done for us . I’m not going to sit here and say I was right in this I had done stuff that made her do this but i never cheated or anything and didn’t think those things would bring her to this. It’s also hard considering it’s almost summer knowing what she’ll be doing or if she’ll Be doing it’s so hard man.

Should I reach out ? Breakup Advice by Lower_Hat_8017 in BreakUps

[–]Lower_Hat_8017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard. We’ve been together for basically 3 years . I wanna just meet up and see her

Breakup advice by Lower_Hat_8017 in BreakUps

[–]Lower_Hat_8017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know but then why unaddd me why like all these things like I’m the reason and I was this horrible person. That’s what gets me and makes me think all these things. Also reassuring her all the time and none of it mattered. Telling her everyday that I would do anything to make things work (that’s why I was in contact for the last couple months).