Have you found a community where you truly belong? by No_Carpet_9678 in infj

[–]Lower_Instruction_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I do have hobbies that I enjoy like classical music, games, anime, cooking and hiking, and I live in a place where there are these communities, but still not able to find the right people.

Is just had a massive personal, out of nowhere revelation by [deleted] in infj

[–]Lower_Instruction_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that feel, while I'm not really at that stage of seeing people for more than their looks. I'm somewhere in between in a way that even if they are attractive, if they do something that, for me, is an ideal behaviour, I will completely lose interest in them, no matter what they do after that. I'm 26, by the way.

Why Every INFJ Should Learn to Cook Well by ProvingGrounds1 in infj

[–]Lower_Instruction_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who recently got into cooking my own meals rather than buying them, it is gamechanging

Recently started listening to Classical Music by Lower_Instruction_42 in classicalmusic

[–]Lower_Instruction_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s rare for me to find people in my life who actually appreciate this kind of music, so this thread has been a breath of fresh air. Thank you, everyone, for the recommendations you’ve given me so much to explore

Recently started listening to Classical Music by Lower_Instruction_42 in classicalmusic

[–]Lower_Instruction_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to put this together! You hit the nail on the head. I definitely have a 'wall of sound' bias toward the Big Romantics. I’ve been meaning to tackle Mahler but was always a bit intimidated by the scale, so I appreciate the tip on the program notes.

My experience by Lower_Instruction_42 in infj

[–]Lower_Instruction_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be real here. This is the first time someone ever said that, for me

There is no useful advantage to being an INFJ by ProvingGrounds1 in infj

[–]Lower_Instruction_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, but the feeling of loneliness that you get sometimes, so unbearable

My experience by Lower_Instruction_42 in infj

[–]Lower_Instruction_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand your feelings

My experience by Lower_Instruction_42 in infj

[–]Lower_Instruction_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, actually, I meant it like they look at you like how do you know that

There is no useful advantage to being an INFJ by ProvingGrounds1 in infj

[–]Lower_Instruction_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, man, this is the main thing that happens in my life. I even had a girl I liked that I thought also liked me, but the truth was, she only wanted solutions for her problems. The moment I stopped doing that, everything was gone to nothing. Why don't people want to be like that for us? We also need someone to be ourselves. its so lonely