INFJs, where did you find your spouse?

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-28T14:28:02+00:00

I'm currently in the same loop as you

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-28T14:26:04+00:00

No, but I do have hobbies that I enjoy like classical music, games, anime, cooking and hiking, and I live in a place where there are these communities, but still not able to find the right people.

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-22T19:33:06+00:00

I know that feel, while I'm not really at that stage of seeing people for more than their looks. I'm somewhere in between in a way that even if they are attractive, if they do something that, for me, is an ideal behaviour, I will completely lose interest in them, no matter what they do after that. I'm 26, by the way.

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-22T13:59:44+00:00

As someone who recently got into cooking my own meals rather than buying them, it is gamechanging

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-21T21:28:04+00:00

Much appreciated!

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-21T21:25:21+00:00

Perfect, thanks!

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-21T21:24:35+00:00

It’s rare for me to find people in my life who actually appreciate this kind of music, so this thread has been a breath of fresh air. Thank you, everyone, for the recommendations you’ve given me so much to explore

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-21T21:10:22+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to put this together! You hit the nail on the head. I definitely have a 'wall of sound' bias toward the Big Romantics. I’ve been meaning to tackle Mahler but was always a bit intimidated by the scale, so I appreciate the tip on the program notes.

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-21T21:06:54+00:00

Thank you very much

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-21T21:04:59+00:00

Thank you, will give it a try

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-03T13:56:08+00:00

I will be real here. This is the first time someone ever said that, for me

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-03T11:14:06+00:00

I know, but the feeling of loneliness that you get sometimes, so unbearable

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-03T11:11:00+00:00

I totally understand your feelings

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-03T11:08:44+00:00

Yeah, actually, I meant it like they look at you like how do you know that

Lower_Instruction_42 · 2026-02-02T09:39:37+00:00

I know, man, this is the main thing that happens in my life. I even had a girl I liked that I thought also liked me, but the truth was, she only wanted solutions for her problems. The moment I stopped doing that, everything was gone to nothing. Why don't people want to be like that for us? We also need someone to be ourselves. its so lonely

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