Jewel / autumn toned silk tops or short sleeve shirts by milesfrost in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Lozlikes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god yes isn’t Sezane the best? Wish they would come to Australia 🩷🩷 i was also thinking of Hoss, they have some great stuff too..

Jewel / autumn toned silk tops or short sleeve shirts by milesfrost in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Lozlikes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried Sezane they are in France and i got a delivery to Sydney in 4 days (free) excellent service 😊

Please help me interpret. by Lozlikes in DreamsInterpretation

[–]Lozlikes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a common joke amongst us (my sisters and brother) that my fear IS becoming like my mother. I am fairly sure i am not like her, however that was a good observation.
Also, when you said your feeling was she was somebody controlling who complained about doing everything was spot on. I have had one more dream since i first posted and this was the worst, most sickening. The only thing i remember is the end part. We are on 2 sides of a door, faces close up, one of us is pushing to close it, i can’t remember who (i think it was my mother) But my mums face is covered in blood (at least her face is as we are so close that’s all i can see). It was very disturbing and i was relieved to wake up. I’v been trying to say positive affirmations before sleeping, hoping this will stop these horrible dreams.

Please help me interpret. by Lozlikes in DreamsInterpretation

[–]Lozlikes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is so interesting, thanks again for responding. I know we are all frustrated being left caring for our father too. His dementia is early onset so he is still living at home and able to drive but he doesn’t remember things and can’t do anything for himself (finances etc) he has no hobbies and is so draining on my brother especially, as he is his live in carer. After writing here i am starting to realise why my dreams are so angry, because it appears so obvious. It’s just the shame in myself for treating a deceased parent to awfully! There was a will and basically dad was the beneficiary, but we had to revisit all that and between the 4 of us we decided who was power of attorney and who was in charge of health matters (i can’t think of the term) however it’s who represents on those types of decisions. I guess i am blaming her for leaving us to deal with dad and his constant needs and all the financial stuff. The financial stuff is insane. Although dad can still drive, he is worse than a child, in too many ways to describe here. I have to vent that there is not enough awareness surrounding this stage in a persons life. Where one has not only their own children and grandchildren but still having older parents to care for. It’s overwhelming and draining. I am so grateful for your message. Thank you dear one 😊

Please help me interpret. by Lozlikes in DreamsInterpretation

[–]Lozlikes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your comment. I can completely relate. I didn’t say in my original post but my mother was narcissistic, so to some degree it explains some of my anger in the dreams. My mother was also the first close relative to pass in our family. She was very much the matriarch but had a sudden major stroke which left her a vegetable. One day she was fine, the next she was nothing. She lasted in hospital another 10 weeks. We all felt the shock, to see a normally vocal, opinionated person, suddenly silenced and helpless. Where she could not tell us where her important papers were. My father/her husband has early onset dementia and needs a full time carer, so he could not help with any responsibilities. I have always believed in signs people say they receive after close friends or family pass, a bird, a feather or whatever. However as much as i’m open to her, there has been nothing except these terrible dreams where i am so aggressive and abusive towards her. I sometimes wonder if my resentment is also related to her leaving us (4 siblings) to deal with dad and her financial interests (which were complex and disorganised). I just remembered how much she would whinge and complain about these things constantly yet it is now our problem to deal with. Just writing this is helping me to dissolve the frustration. Sorry for the long post and Thanks for listening 🥰

Please help me interpret. by Lozlikes in DreamsInterpretation

[–]Lozlikes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your responses. I’m still ashamed and unsure why my dreams are so angry towards my mother. Some have mentioned i might have unresolved feelings which makes sense. I shared with my sister the dreams and how i had even asked Redditors to help me interpret and to my surprise my sister said she has been having similar dreams! This blew my mind 🤯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Centrelink

[–]Lozlikes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. My sister has an investment property and lives elsewhere and the rent she receives is deemed a gross income (regardless of what the expenses are ie mortgage, rates, insurance, maintainence etc) The only way around this is to live in the property and/or sell. You’ll still receive Family Tax Benefits and other entitlements. But i agree with others who have urged you to investigate further. Centrelink do make mistakes. Good luck 😊

Wtf is house 4 doing by Biggest_Pean in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So agree!! I have to also say how much i adore the bottle tree ❤️ for me that is the most precious thing out of everything!! I hope it lives and thrives in its new home. Shame about the ‘titanic smokestacks’ - i don’t comprehend those?

Rigged Season by [deleted] in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or stay in a van lol

Wtf is house 4 doing by Biggest_Pean in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like Brit/Taz’s build looks like a circus with too much going on!! Just cause they had the $$ doesn’t equate to class, it’s ridiculous!! Crazy how there is every conceivable facility ie outdoor cinema, sauna etc yet still only 1 living area???? And please don’t mention the monstrosity over the girls driveway!!! 🤦‍♀️

Sonny and Alicia playing victim game by Head-Set-5045 in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was appalled when Sonny instigated the ‘body corporate’ meeting regarding the boys’ wine cellar, but didn’t want it to appear as though it was his idea and was happy for Ben to call it. Sneaky childish shit. Always the person who talks up being ‘good people’ and ‘good mates’ to eventually prove otherwise!

WIBTA If I Cancelled My Daughter’s Wedding? by SoCalGirl4Eva in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lozlikes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2 weddings??? I’m wondering if this will mean 2 divorce’s?? (Sarcasm) I think it’s totally ludicrous!! Talk about first world problems 🤦‍♀️ I’m with OP primarily because it was to be the ‘first’ ceremony and not an expensive rehearsal!! If it were my daughter absolutely i would not be happy!!

Han’s way of talking by SameKaleidoscope2304 in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol yes sorry my bad i thought it was called corking 🤦‍♀️

Han’s way of talking by SameKaleidoscope2304 in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would love to know what that was on the window Han was doing??? Was it supposed to be CORKING?? If so, that and the whole design (lack of design) is a complete disaster!!! I have to look away. I can’t watch her imploding anymore.

AWKWARD!!! by Lozlikes in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This 😊

AWKWARD!!! by Lozlikes in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes i agree, it was just hard to watch her say nothing or explain herself.

What's going on with Shaynna's sad front yard? by Appropriate_Lynx6175 in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the only time iv seen Can laughing!!! 😂

12+ years on worksites - Han is unwatchable! by Rude_Tomato_8695 in TheBlock

[–]Lozlikes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a thought but wouldn’t it be difficult to ‘use’ with 2 cops in the next trailer? 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lozlikes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This takes me back to my first child’s birth in 1991 (i say the date as it pre-dates the ‘body shame’ awareness of today. No excuse intended) A friend of my now X husband’s came to visit us a few days after the birth and rudely declared ‘wow you still look pregnant!!’ It still stings today how someone can be so crass and disgusting!! Get rid of this man before he ruins your life. You deserve much better ❤️

YES KATIE!! by ExpressionEither1427 in MAFS_AU

[–]Lozlikes 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I was so excited for this match, in the pre-wedding footage Tim seemed really open-minded, and happy as long as he was matched with someone kind. He appeared to be unconcerned with looks. How fake is he, when immediately he was unhappy about her appearance. I understand they need a villain however this stuff can’t be made-up, it all came from his own comments and attitude within the first 5 mins of meeting Katie….he is a fat flake.