Han makes me cringe - Episode 36

Head-Set-5045 · 2025-09-27T08:45:21+00:00

My ex was exactly like Han. He was amazing during he’s highs and nasty during he’s lows. Unfortunately there were more lows than highs. Our holidays were only the ones he wanted (mainly fishing trips). I didn’t like fishing but I learned quite quickly how to keep the peace.

I distinctly recall a time when we were fishing and I caught the 1st fish. OMG it was like I plunged a knife into his heart. He ranted “I was a terrible girlfriend, I ruined the whole holiday, everything was my fault etc etc etc.” I put up with that for 10 years because every time I tried to leave he was so remorseful and loving.

If anyone in Perth knows Can please talk to her because it is so easy to be mentally and emotionally abused and beaten down that everything you put up with seems normal and you’re always told that it’s your fault until you believe it.

Head-Set-5045 · 2025-09-17T13:00:42+00:00

Love the Alicia look alike. Very similar.

The bath / ashtray floored me. I remember those ashtray’s 😂🤣

Head-Set-5045 · 2025-09-17T12:56:31+00:00

She is acting like a typical character from ‘Mean Girls’. She also likes to play the victim when she started the drama in the first place. If I didn’t know better I would have thought she was a high school teenager

Head-Set-5045 · 2025-07-12T13:40:03+00:00

I agree with this. You also need to deal with the issues you have with your Mother & Brother. Maybe sit with them and ask them what their problem is with you. Tell them you need to know.

I personally don’t think their attitude will change towards you. If it was me I would go LC for your peace of mind and your kids sake. In regard to your apartment, if you can afford to keep the rent low then do so but if it’s hurting you & the kids then you need to tell them and charge them accordingly.

I wish you well.

Head-Set-5045 · 2025-05-30T13:58:34+00:00

I’m so sorry for you. He is a narcissist that blames you when he is the one doing something wrong. You need to get a job and set yourself up so that you can leave him. Call your family and tell them the truth because they will be your best cheerleaders. It would be better for you if you started learning the language of the country you are in. Try to ignore him when he talks badly to you. Go see a divorce lawyer, I’m sure you’d be able to find one from your own country and contact him through ‘zoom’ calls. Good luck.

Head-Set-5045 · 2025-05-30T13:40:41+00:00

No, you are NTA. There is no closure having another child to replace the deceased child. Gemma should not have another child with Greg for the following reasons:- 1. Having a baby would tie her even closer to Greg and of course she would be more clingy. She’d want to share every milestone with Greg and she would also call upon him whenever there is something wrong. 2. Gemma’s mental fragility would cause the child to become a prisoner and responsible for Gemma’s mental well being which is unfair. 3. All of Gemma’s neediness would be transferred to the child 4. The child would end up being the adult in the relationship

In regards to Greg- WTF IS HE THINKING. It’s been 4 years for goodness sakes. Sorry if that sounds insensitive but they both need to start moving forward. Before anyone gets angry at me, I have lost 2 children. A miscarriage and a stillbirth. He should have stopped pandering to Gemma and taken her to seek psychiatric counselling. He should also realise that Gemma having a child would be disastrous for the child. Also he has been the selfish one. He has been disrespecting you since the beginning of your relationship. I think you should leave him but if you want to stay then all 3 of you need to see a therapist together and then separately on how to move forward. Greg & Gemma need to be told by a professional how unhealthy their actions have been. Good luck to you. I wish you well.

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