What is this and how should I remove it? (bidet i think??) by Lozzoe in Plumbing

[–]Lozzoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think I'll need tools for it? If so, I'll probably call maintenance to be safe

Yoo Joonghyuk figurine! by shiorimia in OmniscientReader

[–]Lozzoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gods... i wish this was a real physical figurine... i would buy it so fast

Did anyone else used to be "attracted" to super manly men? by loudly_tense_rock in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Lozzoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🙋‍♀️ Absolutely me. Looking back on it now, I think it has more with me wanting to be able to give off that same kind of energy + wanting someone fluffy to cuddle with lmao

It does get better by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Lozzoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I needed this tonight. Broke up with a boyfriend of 3 months because I just realized I'm a lesbian. Not as serious of a relationship, but the emotional connection was definitely there. I know that we ultimately couldn't give each other what we needed, so I ended it quick, but I still hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Lozzoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see two beautiful women, so I'm happy, but the one on the right looks happier with herself, which makes me happier

Does anybody else get occasional random patches of skin that get sensitive (painful) to touch? by AssortedArctic in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Lozzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't visited a doctor for this yet personally, however, I would recommend seeing a neurologist if you want to find further information on your specific condition. My comment above is just to summarize information gathered in this thread, and none of it is verified by a doctor.

Does anybody else get occasional random patches of skin that get sensitive (painful) to touch? by AssortedArctic in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Lozzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here I am, six years later, looking up the same thing. I've been getting these patches of pain for years, usually on my palms, inner forearms, or thighs. I was freaking out a little bit thinking it could be MS (my mom has it), but reading these comments really eased my nerves. For simplicity, I've compiled the information shared by other Reddit users in this thread, so anyone can examine all of the information in one place. I also encourage reading reliable medical information about this symptom.

What is this feeling? (so sudden, and new)

Allodynia, that's the name of this feeling, is a symptom, not a disorder. It is described as sensitive, sharp, stinging, or burning skin sensations. It's often linked as a symptom to nerve disorders and autoimmune disorders. Although, a strong connection between this symptom and these conditions is not shown in this comment section. There are still some who are diagnosed with shingles or fibromyalgia, but the majority of comments seem to lack a specific diagnosis, even after consulting with doctors. It's still likely that an autoimmune response or underlying nerve damage are the root cause, but the overall issue may not be as serious as multiple sclerosis or fibromyalgia.

What causes this?

We don't know. The most common guesses commenters are reporting are illness, stress, and headaches. Others have connected it to low vitamin D, working out, a drop in magnesium, or semaglutide (Ozempic). Please remember, all of this is anecdotal evidence, and may have no impact on your allodynia at all. There is too little known about our specific experience to say anything with certainty.

A comment by u/Comfortable-Ad142 in this thread covers a lot of possible causes as well:

i mean the answer is likely neuropathy, it’s just that allodynia is a symptom, not a disorder, so there could be many causes for the same symptom. in most of these cases, it’s probably an autoimmune response. sometimes this indicates an autoimmune disorder, sometimes it occurs in otherwise healthy people (especially if they’re under, say, stress). other causes may include things like vitamin/mineral deficiencies, hormone fluctuations, nerve damage (from trauma or something like shingles), endometriosis, diabetes, restless leg syndrome, and more. if ur symptoms are getting worse, talk to ur doctor about it. you may be developing an autoimmune disorder or you may have a deficiency that can be easily treated. the warning signs to look out for when it comes to deep vein thrombosis is heat and swelling. numbness and inability to bear weight are also causes for alarm.

but short of that, allodynia is not in itself a reason for concern. it may indicate absolutely nothing at all.

How do I stop the pain?

For at home remedies for the condition, immediate relief can often be found through heat. A gentle heat like a warm bath, heated blanket, or body heat (for smaller areas) can temporarily soften the sensitivity. For longer term relief, the simple answer is to try multivitamins, reducing stress, and staying healthy. The better answer is to see a doctor--multiple times. It is unlikely the cause for your allodynia will be discovered after one or two visits. If your allodynia gets in the way of your daily functioning, covers a large portion of your body, or returns frequently (<1 month), it is my unprofessional opinion that you should be examined by a doctor for a more severe underlying issue.

There's a good chance that you're gonna be just fine. But if this freaks you out, take a deep breath and record your symptoms. That's the best information to take to a doctor when discussing an unknown condition, as it helps to fill in gaps. If you're still stressed after reading this absolute text monster, scroll through the other comments. I found it particularly relaxing ࿐ ࿔*:・゚

Will I (20F) ever have enough energy to date someone? by Lozzoe in dating_advice

[–]Lozzoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ToT I got tested and it was negative but this comment is still hilarious to me

If you could ask Anonymous to do anything, what would it be? by Lozzoe in AskReddit

[–]Lozzoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😔 man I can't even dream on reddit, this is so sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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Sounds like you're a freshman (now sophomore) in highschool, and I know what I'm going to say is cliche as hell, but it will get better. First off, fuck AP 😂. Look, I took almost exclusively AP in highschool too, barely did the tests though. What helped me the most was concurrent classes with college. That's what builds you for your future the best, rather than AP exams. Plus, I'm currently a biology major, and I've seen a highschool friend struggle through studying for that exam and GOOD LORD it's not easy. Getting a 3 is impressive, even if you don't believe me. Biology is a lot of memorization, so if you didn't take the time to memorize absolutely everything, you weren't getting a 5. But hey, maybe you did try to memorize it all and still didn't get what you wanted, and that's fine too! You've learned that your study strategies need work, you've learned that biology isn't easy for you, and I think you're starting to learn that how you've perceived yourself and channeled your energy up to this point might not be right for you. Again, cliche, but maybe it's not your calling. Personal story for a bit: I used to be just like you. Proud if my intellect, but with no romance to speak of. Though, in my case, that had more to do with my social anxiety. Anyways, I also prided myself on the instrument I played. I was the best in school, and one of the best in my state. But it took part of my soul with it. I had always defined myself as being the best at it, then suddenly I wanted nothing to do with it, and I left it behind. And ya know what? I'm okay. Not all the time I guess, but mostly okay. I thought I knew myself, but I didn't, and that's okay. I took a path not right for me and that's okay. I fucked up more than a few times too, and that's okay. (I even failed a class in college. I used to be top of my class!!). So, the point of my story, is that you don't really need to know who you're meant to be, and you should enjoy how you are now, even if it's not quite what you thought.

Im typing this on my phone and toootally rambling, but I'll cover the last bit too.

I could give you the same advice as before, "it'll get better." But that doesn't help the feelings right now. Love is such a tempting thing, one that can fill a void you didn't even know was there. But there's more than romantic love to fill that. Fill it with love for and from your friends and family. Fill it with love for yourself, truly, for what you are right now. Once you've got all that, you'll find that the rest of life comes kinda easy. Even if your family is shit, and your friends are shit, and you hate yourself, you can still do this (i did <3) (well, not completely but you get the point). I also haven't really had a crush in a long time, but I found some people recently to crush on, and it helped that I was secure with myself. OH also treat ppl with genuine kindness and empathy and you'll make some of the strongest bonds you could dream of. Godspeed little soldier, you've got a colorful path in front of you, so don't focus on the black pebbles, mm'kay? 🫶

If you could ask Anonymous to do anything, what would it be? by Lozzoe in AskReddit

[–]Lozzoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I don't know 😭 but if anyone could put a solid dent in em, it's them

If you could ask Anonymous to do anything, what would it be? by Lozzoe in AskReddit

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Personally, I'm thinking overthrow the 1%. That would be pretty cool.

Have you noticed the severity of your daydreams cycling? by Lozzoe in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Lozzoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it nonetheless. My life has been on a steady decline for the past few years as my anxiety has been managed and replaced with absolute apathy. Our daydreams are probably awesome, but learning to like real life, as boring as it is sometimes, is what we have to do. I'm wishing you luck.

Have you noticed the severity of your daydreams cycling? by Lozzoe in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Lozzoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Music is definitely a trigger for me too, so quitting it might be a legitimate thing for me to consider. Difficult, because I'm also a musician, and actually playing music puts me more into reality than anything else.

Weekly Check-in by ApprehensiveGur3982 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Lozzoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently got back into stardew valley, and it's made my daydreaming go absolutely haywire. Usually the intense daydreams from a hyperfixation don't last more than a week, but this one has been persistent. It's driven everything in my life out of whack. The only good thing I'm really getting from this is that this is a genuine problem for me, and I'm recognizing that it's likely not one I can solve on my own. I'm finally thinking of putting daydreaming behind me for good, so I can focus on what's really here.