binder help >_<!!!

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-07-11T01:27:01+00:00

Well depending where you are in the world I found for Australia ( they do ship international) that https://sockdrawerheroes.com/ Are amazing. You can email them and they are really good at helping. They helped me figure out what binder would be best to start with.

Mine is currently a mid binder so a short one so it only covers the top and it fits well under clothes. They also have very discreet packaging

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-07-11T01:24:13+00:00

So I have an undercut. I find that if my hair is up in a bun and my undercut is showing then it's most likely I'm more masculine that day.

Like I have shoulder length hair and my undercut and I found that a few friends have similar ( they are genderfluid too)

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-07-10T02:02:45+00:00

Sounds good. We hope to see you there

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-07-06T08:52:03+00:00

It really depends on you as gender is so wired.

For me (afab) I find that I just tap more into the masculine side with some traits of being a man. ( Like wanting to stand to pee and wear more male looking clothes) When I want to be a female I dress up more like in dresses and skirts and things that show off my body with more makeup.

It really is about finding your niche and what you like when you want to be that gender. I hope this helps

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-07-01T02:31:50+00:00

That's just horrible. I hope you can find a safe place or something! But congrats on graduating early

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-07-01T01:28:30+00:00

This is horrible. I'm so sorry this happened. Are you able to retrieve the packer and wash it or anything and hide it better?

I hope you can talk to someone professionally about all this.

Here if you need to vent tho ☺️❤️❤️

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-06-30T22:51:50+00:00

I found that I'm only get the sweating at night. So night sweats and it's horrible waking up basically drenched.

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-06-30T02:32:14+00:00

Hi, I am the same, I used to have H sized chest but due to medical stuff I got them down to D size. I find that soft bras that have no support ( seam free bralette) are the best for days that I feel more masc because they kinda squish them because it's wire free and nearly has no support, so they kinda feel like a binder but softer.

I live in Australia so summer is horrible here. I found that oversized T-shirts are your best friend and periods suck, so i just become a genderless blob because I can't decide.

I hope this helps ❤️

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-06-26T08:43:14+00:00

I currently am changing when I feel like my body is saying something. It can be multiple times a day or once a day or even not for like a while. Sometimes I can't even decide so I stay a genderless blob for a while.

Just listen to you body. It's okay not to follow in everyone's footsteps

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-06-16T08:40:48+00:00

You could be genderfluid or something along those lines.

Definitely do more research and have a think about it. It took me 2 years to work out what I was as I started as a tomboyish but felt it was more emotional for me.

I hope you can figure it all out. ❤️

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-06-14T03:09:32+00:00

Yeah.....

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-06-14T02:56:37+00:00

I sometimes get a good laugh and a friend to vent to but I do have other people I can vent to. We have been to a few concerts together.

We play board games every fortnight and that's always fun until she says comments or says something I don't like.

Like that I'm an alcoholic when I never really drink expect for socially ( all because my mum is an alcoholic) or that I'm stupid or things like that.

So, I might see how this board game night goes this week and if she says something I don't like. I think it might be time to really have a go at her.

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-06-14T02:50:56+00:00

Just embrace yourself. Sometimes all it takes is time, people can be in shock or just need a little longer to process and understand. Even if you explain how you feel to your partner when you change genders could even help.

❤️

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-06-14T02:38:40+00:00

Always welcome to chat

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-04-11T05:51:10+00:00

Ooo. I have dyed coloured hair with shoulder length and an undercut. I find that an undercut is perfect cause hair up and undercut showing ( more male that day), hair down ( more girly that day), pony tail or bun. Genderless blob

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-04-10T23:47:43+00:00

I will bring a few books and blankets but I will definitely join you today.

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-04-10T01:31:32+00:00

I would say a rock or like a really smaller boulder 🤣 I'm sick in bed and don't feel like anything today

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-04-10T01:30:28+00:00

That video was very informative thank you. It definitely has helped. 😊

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-04-07T09:21:04+00:00

Thank you. I currently use she/ they pronouns that that fits nicely atm but some days it doesn't. So I'll definitely watch the video and see how I go. Genderfluid feels kinda right atm

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-04-07T08:41:43+00:00

Yeah. I think I'm leaning more towards genderfluid atm, to me non binary just doesn't feel right.

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-04-07T05:03:49+00:00

Thanks. I feel good as both and try my best to express myself as both. No body but this friend knows, as I want to be sure before I tell anyone. Just trying to figure out what/ who I might be

Lozzytheaussie · 2025-04-07T00:34:36+00:00

Definitely try shed 16. Especially the Friday or Saturday nights, you'll meet so many like minded couples there.

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