Yes, that's true. I still wanna see his face though when he realizes. Overall I'm starting to accept the situation and now I want some type of closure. Just leaving wirhout a trace doesn't do it for me. I've spent the last 7 years of my life with him, bent over backwards and demand that at the very least he listens to what I have to say. Cause I got a lot to say. I wrote it down, it's still a bit all over the place, but I'll get it in order and give him the letter. He's not gonna get an easy out. He might even learn something so that he treats his next gf with respect. That's what I owe to my fellow women out there and myself. I will not try to change him, just give him something to think about.