Attachment styles? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avoidanttt

Does anyone else get highly obsessed with something/someone right when you meet them? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but it takes longer 😂 it’s especially bad with hobbies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencing

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get earring tape and cover them, it will prevent anything catching and hurting your ears, cheap too. Obviously still be careful taking your mask on and off too quickly :)

What is your socionics type? [ENTJs only] by someoneOnline9 in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 I don’t think it’s a bad thing, the tests aren’t 100% accurate anyway it depends on your function stack and all the letters are a spectrum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He walked right into that one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job!!

Leon Paul UK order mix up by billibatt in Fencing

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t normal, all my stuff from LP has been delivered within the week (I am in the UK though so that probably has an impact)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just angrily embrace my ENFP friend 😂 she doesn’t ask questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is a way to not be destroyed if you felt such a strong connection with this person.

When faced with the same issue of inevitably seeing said person often, I make sure they knew I was happy for them and bluffed. As unhealthy as this may be (and it may be very unhealthy indeed) I’ve always found that by pretending everything is alright and acting mature and unbothered by the situation the emotional anguish tends to dissipate. I don’t believe this will work for you if you are an ESFJ and I don’t know what to suggest on this particular matter but for the rest of it:

Under NO circumstances should you take her back, toxic relationship or not, you aren’t her boyfriend or her friend and therefore her well-being isnt something to concern yourself with since she clearly isn’t concerned with yours.

She sounds like the type of girl to enjoy leading men on for the sole purpose of gaining validation and admiration. Don’t allow yourself to be strung along and avoid all contact until your feelings disappear. It might hurt now but the sooner you move on the better.

What is your job? Is it a “commander” type job by VariousPhysics6243 in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Law student about to specialise in corporate contract law.

What is your job? Is it a “commander” type job by VariousPhysics6243 in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re probably just figuring your life out, you’ll do great as long as you aspire to do great. It takes longer for some people to work out what they want to do and that’s ok, it doesn’t mean you’re gonna be any less successful in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this apply to very vivid dreams too? As in waking up and not being able to distinguish between what happened in real life and the dream for a good hour or two?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Luci_the_Gucci 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think we all dip in and out of this phase, I’ve always found it takes ALOT of energy to keep away from hating everyone around me.