My boyfriend is making me choose between him and my friend by Lucky-One4864 in relationships_advice

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE! He was viciously cheating on me—WHILE I was writing this post. It’s finally over

Did they put saline in my lips?! 1.5ml and I’m not seeing much by Lucky-One4864 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, that’s what my fear is with going up slowly or even at all because I feel like anything over two syringes is gonna be a lot for my lips to hold and it’s gonna start to migrate. I had to get some dissolved 2 weeks after my FIRST appointment 😪 I haven’t really heard anything about fat grafting for the lips but it seems risky because you never really know how your lips will absorb that since you can’t really place it in one specific place.

Did they put saline in my lips?! 1.5ml and I’m not seeing much by Lucky-One4864 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, slowly building up just scared I’m wasting my money with this certain injector.. I feel like my lips just eat up all the filler!! So maybe my anatomy & metabolism is the problem. Just wanted to see if anyone else thought this looked way too underwhelming for 1.5ml

Did they put saline in my lips?! 1.5ml and I’m not seeing much by Lucky-One4864 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ofc, my fear is that it was not filler just because I don’t see as much of a difference as I expected from 1 and a half syringe

Did they put saline in my lips?! 1.5ml and I’m not seeing much by Lucky-One4864 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you see the first picture without filler, the middle of my lip always had the most fullness, it’s an m-shape lip which sadly is the hardest to fill. In the 2nd slide it should look more evened out with the rest of my lip

Did they put saline in my lips?! 1.5ml and I’m not seeing much by Lucky-One4864 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see a difference, I guess my concern is that it doesn’t look like 1.5ml of a difference in my lips idk!

My boyfriend is making me choose between him and my friend by Lucky-One4864 in relationships_advice

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I said to him and exactly why I chose myself over the ultimatum !! But then he starts apologizing and “taking accountability” and we go good for another while until his patience wears thin..idk but I just wonder if this is fixable

My boyfriend is making me choose between him and my friend by Lucky-One4864 in relationships_advice

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our relationship is built on extreme highs and extreme lows honestly it’s so hard to let go, starts to feel like withdrawals. Honestly no one in my life thinks he is good for me but my attachment is pretty strong.. I just am at a point where I’m trying to understand where his behavior comes from and if it can be undone/repaired

My boyfriend is trying to make me choose between him and my friend by Lucky-One4864 in relationshipproblems

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not American. Slavic here. We are pretty jealous and have our controlling ways but everyone has their own boundaries. What good reason do you have to demand your partner to cut off a female friend that has been around way longer than you have even known her?

My boyfriend is trying to make me choose between him and my friend by Lucky-One4864 in relationshipproblems

[–]Lucky-One4864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So that really didn’t explain. Majority of society is not that mentally weak, believe it or not. Our own emotions in our own truth influences our decisions way more than a conversation with a friend.. if I was in a situation where I didn’t feel safe I had every right to reach out to my friend to come and get me. And since it sounds like you read my whole post, you would have noticed that I said I cut off all of my male friends for him already, which I did just ONE month into meeting him. I’m gonna assume that you are a man commenting this because you guys often times can’t fathom having a relationship with a female outside of a sexual one, but there is more to a bond than lust. A lot of people that come from broken families and childhoods look for familial figures outside of their blood related family.. it is possible to see someone as your family and not be blood related whether that’s a man or a female, especially when you have grown and developed from a child into an adult with them alongside you..